steph25
12-12-14, 21:12
Right now my anxiety is uncontrollable and I don't know what to do about it.
It's going to sound pathetic but I get anxious about my boyfriends safety. We live in London, it's a big place and his work has lots of parties and after work socialising. They are journalists and they drink a lot and my boyfriend has been drinking a lot lately too and I worry that something will happen to him when he drinks.
If I can't get hold of him (which can only be between 2-4 hours) I completely lose the plot and think something has happened to him, despite knowing that is unlikely.
I don't get anxious about him cheating, it is only about his safety and what if something bad has happened to him and I don't know how to control it.
I have been to the doctors and he's put me on a few different types of anxiety medication over the past year but nothing helps and I don't know what to do.
It's his works Christmas party tonight and I am trying to hard to stay calm. I'm trying to tell myself that yes he is drinking quite a lot but so are loads of people around the country and they are okay.
Background information:
My Mum's an alcoholic, a serious one. Last year she was given weeks to live and by some miracle she came off it about a year ago and has stayed off it.
When I was a child she used to drink and then disappear for a few days, which is what is scaring me I think.
I've also lost a few people close to me to suicide, so I am very much aware of death and losing a loved one terrifies me.
Does anyone have any tips on how to control it?
It's going to sound pathetic but I get anxious about my boyfriends safety. We live in London, it's a big place and his work has lots of parties and after work socialising. They are journalists and they drink a lot and my boyfriend has been drinking a lot lately too and I worry that something will happen to him when he drinks.
If I can't get hold of him (which can only be between 2-4 hours) I completely lose the plot and think something has happened to him, despite knowing that is unlikely.
I don't get anxious about him cheating, it is only about his safety and what if something bad has happened to him and I don't know how to control it.
I have been to the doctors and he's put me on a few different types of anxiety medication over the past year but nothing helps and I don't know what to do.
It's his works Christmas party tonight and I am trying to hard to stay calm. I'm trying to tell myself that yes he is drinking quite a lot but so are loads of people around the country and they are okay.
Background information:
My Mum's an alcoholic, a serious one. Last year she was given weeks to live and by some miracle she came off it about a year ago and has stayed off it.
When I was a child she used to drink and then disappear for a few days, which is what is scaring me I think.
I've also lost a few people close to me to suicide, so I am very much aware of death and losing a loved one terrifies me.
Does anyone have any tips on how to control it?