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DonCorleone9
08-01-07, 01:55
First time there was anything wrong with me I was woken up with some insane head-rush, unbalance, breathlesness, and the hot then cold and then weird dull sensation coming from my heart. Since then i've had all sorts; i've had plenty test on my heart and seen one of the best cardiologist in the country and he said my heart is fine. He tells me it's down to anxiety and I have had most of the syptoms described on this forum (new one today, throat swelled up thought i was going too choke, panic ended and I was fine.)
This is all so strange as I'm such a laid back person who dosn't tend to worry (maybe its different when coming to health obviously). Here's some helpful tips that can really help which was given too me and specifically cover health anxiety:
- Stop trying too prove there is nothing wrong with you. We all have too live with uncertainty

-Learn not too ask for reassurance as this makes it worse. Learn to reassure yourself

- Challenge your worrying thoughts. Identify distorted thinking such as "all or nothing thinking" (presuming worst case scenario as too prepare yourself if it is. e.g. i'l be thinking I have a serious heart problem or a cancer as you can see from this forum alot of people are doing that who are perfectly healthy), castastrophising or awfulising, jumping to conclusions.

-Stop avoiding things too do with illness such as hospitals or t.v. programs, learn too master your anxiety

-Stop behaving as you are ill, carry on as normal and keep active

-Stop finding out about illness and reading medical textbooks. throw away your books.

-Reduce background stress levels. Learn to relax more and bulid in more pleasurable activities in your life.

- It is not either physical or psychological but a combination of both.

-List 5 positive self-statements and reherse them when feeling pre-occupied

Hope this is a help, it helped me.
All the best

Nick Rutter

Humly
08-01-07, 16:46
Thank you. This is very good advice. I will try to follow it.

domino
08-01-07, 17:04
sounds good to me , thanks for that.

Lola
08-01-07, 19:49
"Learn not too ask for reassurance as this makes it worse. Learn to reassure yourself."

This is so true! I fall ino this habit a lot, and then I am in this endless cycle where I keep needing more reassurance! I have at least recognized it now and am making a more conscious effort to stop, but sometimes, once you are in the zone, there is no stopping it!!

Thanks for these interesting pointers :)

Lola

deno1617
09-01-07, 08:45
If only it was that simple!!

Diane

reddevil
09-01-07, 09:47
"Learn not too ask for reassurance as this makes it worse. Learn to reassure yourself."


It's the one I need to learn quickly...!

tommythomson
09-01-07, 18:03
Nick

That's a good shout mate!

T

neelhm
10-01-07, 08:56
Really good advice especially keeping active and leading a normal life. I tend to avoid physical ativity and that just makes it worse as there really is nothing wrong with me. Hmmm try to convince my brain of that ....
N

Remember the strongest fall the hardest...

worrywuss
10-01-07, 14:35
there is so much more i need to learn about having a health anxiety and ive just realised that im always asking for reassurance that im ok all the time - i never knew it was a symptom of the anxiety!!! [Duh!]

thank you xxx

pips
11-01-07, 12:51
Thanks for that Great Advice Cheers!.

Take care,

Love Pip's X

Pippa.