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alcur
11-01-07, 19:23
Hi All

Found this site on the internet today, wish I'd found it a couple of months back when I was at my worst.

My story sounds really stupid compared to others in here but I'll open up anyway.

Three months ago I slipped and fell on my way out of the the office having worked late (as usual) and had to perform the mad dash between the security button and the door. Off to A & E and diagnosed with a broken shoulder and told I had High Blood Pressure and to see GP. I was apparently lucky and only had a vertical fracture but basically there was nothing could be done to fix it. Went back to work after 4 days off, shouldn't really have been driving as had poor movement, and also was sleeping really badly so went crashing to earth and ended up off work for best part of 5 weeks.

Went to the Docs for blood pressure test and was told in a serious tone 'We'll need to treat this' and I freaked out. After half a dozen blood pressure tests (over about 4 weeks) I got more and more anxious. Doc told me that I was suffering anxiety attacks, I responded saying that just wasn't me I was Mr Happy Go Lucky. After reading symptoms thought 'well maybe he's right' prescribed valium - took a couple ended up with spongey feeling in head in the mornings so threw them out.

Emergency appointment after emergency appointment at the GP's and a visit to A & E determined that blood tests were normal etc. etc.

Very understanding wife helped me through really bad days and I have gradually felt better. Had loads of stupid thoughts as far as work was concerned - went back in everyone was cool. Though my wife did have to shove me out the door that day.

Now however I'm feeling better but have developed 'palpitations' well that's what one doc called them the other said it's ectopic beats which frankly scare the pants off me. I don't know if they are the same as others but can last me for hours whereas others seem to just get them for a short time, though like everyone the doctor said it's not a problem.

It's great finding a site like this where you know you are not alone and I have been comforted reading all the stories that the rest of you have taken the time to write.

honeybee3939
11-01-07, 19:36
Hi Alcur

A BIG warm welcome to you, lovely to see you here, im sure you get some great advice while making new friends on the way.:D

Take a look at the first step pages also Alcur, you may fimd them of interest.

First Steps:
First Steps to overcoming Panic and Anxiety (http://www.nomorepanic.co.uk/showthread.php?t=942)

Love

Andrea
xxxx




"If you have a worry turn it into a problem, you cant solve worrys but you can solve problems"

weepinky
11-01-07, 19:37
Hi alcur, and a warm welcome to you and no you certainly are not the only one!!!!! You will find everyone here very supportive.

Take Care


Pinky

tommythomson
11-01-07, 19:39
Hello Alcur

Welcome to the site. You are most definately not alone. Glad you're feeling better. Some of the symptoms are hard to handle even though you know they will do you no harm. Hang on in there.

T

nomorepanic
11-01-07, 20:07
Hi there and welcome aboard.

Lovely to see you here.

You are not alone with the palpitations. Have a look at these....

Palpitations (http://www.nomorepanic.co.uk/NMPcms.php?nmppage=palpitations)

Palpitations
Palpitations (http://www.nomorepanic.co.uk/NMPcms.php?nmppage=palpitations)
palpatations (http://www.nomorepanic.co.uk/showthread.php?t=2284)
Missed heartbeats! (http://www.nomorepanic.co.uk/showthread.php?t=3186)
sorry for being silly....but.... (http://www.nomorepanic.co.uk/showthread.php?t=3320)
Palpitations? Reassurance needed and some answers! (http://www.nomorepanic.co.uk/showthread.php?t=3371)
Missed heartbeat question again (http://www.nomorepanic.co.uk/showthread.php?t=3550)
IS THERE ANYMORE I CAN DO???? (http://www.nomorepanic.co.uk/showthread.php?t=3784)
ectopic heart beats (http://www.nomorepanic.co.uk/showthread.php?t=4664)
Doc made ectopic fear worse (http://www.nomorepanic.co.uk/showthread.php?t=4849)
missed heartbeats, still worried (http://www.nomorepanic.co.uk/showthread.php?t=5061)
Skipped Beats (http://www.nomorepanic.co.uk/showthread.php?t=5078)
Heart reassurance (http://www.nomorepanic.co.uk/showthread.php?t=5282)
New to site.....Palpatation freinds!!!!! (http://www.nomorepanic.co.uk/showthread.php?t=5204)
STILL SOOO SCARED OF MISSED HEARTBEATS-LOADS AGAIN (http://www.nomorepanic.co.uk/showthread.php?t=5404)
Multiple Skipped Beats (http://www.nomorepanic.co.uk/showthread.php?t=5424)
Skipped Beats AGAIN!!! (http://www.nomorepanic.co.uk/showthread.php?t=5639)
Obsessed with my heart (http://www.nomorepanic.co.uk/showthread.php?t=6535)
Palpitations (http://www.nomorepanic.co.uk/showthread.php?t=7258)
Eptopic Beats..im sorry please help..xxxxx (http://www.nomorepanic.co.uk/showthread.php?t=8055)

Ectopics – doc reassured
Been to doc's about ectopics (http://www.nomorepanic.co.uk/showthread.php?t=8316)
Heart Results - ectopics and dizzyness (http://www.nomorepanic.co.uk/showthread.php?t=8474)


Nicola

People will forget what you said
People will forget what you did
But people will never forget how you made them feel

alcur
11-01-07, 21:46
Thanks for your kind replies guys. It's amazing that sharing a 'dark secret' like this can help so dramatically.

6 hours of Ectopics today but it's not going to beat me.

Thanks again.

manmoor
11-01-07, 22:17
Hi Alcur,

A big warm welcome to you.

Take Care

Mandyxx

Lindalou64
11-01-07, 23:55
hi alcur
welocome to nmp.im sure you will find alot with the same symptoms and info here......best to ya..........linda[8D]

weepinky
12-01-07, 10:20
Hi alcur

I can relate with you that your suffering is a 'dark secret'............. as mine is too[^]!!!! Only my husband knows, everyone else thinks I'm a smiley happy person all the time, (but thats only on the outside). Is anyone else a good actor????

Take Care


Pinky

trac67
12-01-07, 16:39
Hi,

Welcome to the forum, you will get a lot of good advice here and make some new friends.

Take care

Trac xx

'Life is not about waiting for the storm to pass, it's about learning to dance in the rain'

fisher
12-01-07, 19:58
hi welcome to the site, i had bad anxiety 4yrs ago, and i was diagnosed with ectopic heartbeats 5yrs ago, they say they are nothing to worry about, but it still worrys you, i had ectopics for a full week in november and i went private to see a cardiologist and he said its just an extra beat and people can have hundreds a day without harming you, i have had palpatations aswell and they are scary but harmless, dont panic you will be fine, let me know how you get on x jo

jos
13-01-07, 00:46
hey alcur

us easygoing over-working cheeky chappies (or was it happy go lucky?) couldn't be in such a mess from just anxiety? could we? well it took me a long time until i found this site - over 6 months - before i found that we could - and that i really didn't have some undiagnosed horrible illness- my gp and others never really explained and i'm not sure that they even really understand

its only those who have been there that can demistify anxiety
- a great book i found was "its ok to be neurotic" by dr frank bruno

it sounds like you have some good support which helps a lot

good luck - baby steps when the going gets tough

cheers jos

bearcrazy
13-01-07, 09:15
Hi alcur
This is a great site.I recently joined and have found it a great help to talk to people who really do know how I feel! Its good to thibk that you can also help others because you know how they are feeling and can truly empathise. look forward to seeing you in the chat room. xxxxx

TC Bear

alcur
17-01-07, 19:49
Hi friends - thanks for your kind replies I'm touched by them all.

A small update - Researched the BP tabs that I was on and found they can cause irregular heartbeats so went to the docs and asked if I could stop them. He said yes. Came home started to calm down, had visitor in and Doc phones up to ask me to try a 24hr urine test. No explanation why!! Me Panic's like hell after looking on internet...

Tries to call docs yesterday, he wasn't in and he'd left no notes, that messed yesterday up for me. Went down to see him today and was informed it's a test for adrenal gland tumour - I'm sure you can guess where my anxiety levels are today.

Anyway ectopics are still with me but they start later in the day and I don't think feel as explosive as they were, but time will tell...

Take care

Alcur

ladybird
17-01-07, 22:59
Hello you! Welcome from me, I only joined the other day. I have had anxiety for years and am at my wits end. However, I was told that ectopic beats are not dangerous, believe me.

You'll be fine!

I wish I could believe the same about me though.