susie1
24-01-15, 19:56
I thought I would post this thread and say thank you to all those people who have offered me support over the last few weeks. it is however with great reluctance that I have decided to take myself off the site.
My CBT taught me the thing I should not do is seek reassurance. My husband thinks that this is what I am seeking by being on here. Deep down I know he is right. It is going to be very hard to leave but it is causing a lot of problems between us and he has been so supportive through some dreadful times that I have to respect what he is saying.
I think the site is fantastic. Not least for letting us all know that we are not the only ones out there suffering from this dreadful affliction.
One thing I would say, or rather ask, is that when people have gone for tests/result or issues have been resolved , please post and tell people. I have found it very hard left not knowing. I realise that once you get the all clear you just want to break free for a while and enjoy the relief - I know that only too well -, but please try.
Anyway, thamkyou once again everyone and I wish everyone well in the future
Susie
My CBT taught me the thing I should not do is seek reassurance. My husband thinks that this is what I am seeking by being on here. Deep down I know he is right. It is going to be very hard to leave but it is causing a lot of problems between us and he has been so supportive through some dreadful times that I have to respect what he is saying.
I think the site is fantastic. Not least for letting us all know that we are not the only ones out there suffering from this dreadful affliction.
One thing I would say, or rather ask, is that when people have gone for tests/result or issues have been resolved , please post and tell people. I have found it very hard left not knowing. I realise that once you get the all clear you just want to break free for a while and enjoy the relief - I know that only too well -, but please try.
Anyway, thamkyou once again everyone and I wish everyone well in the future
Susie