tryingtohelp
09-02-15, 21:39
First post, i googled you guys in a bit of a tizz!
My husband has been diagnosed with general anxiety and depression, symptoms since October but been building waaaay before that and went to the GP 4 weeks ago.
He's gone from feeling down, to needing to drive for hours and the last 3 days staying out a a friends and now sleeping in his car.
I'm alone with 3 children under 5 and am freaking out a bit tonight, he texted he is "feeling fine" but when I said the oldest is asking if daddy will be home tonight he texted "feeling fine but don't know". I spoke to him before that at 4pm and he sounded off.
What do I do??? I don't want to pressure him and make him worse but FFS he's sleeping in a car, I haven't seen him apart from him running in to shower and drive oldest to reception this morning. Am I helping him or enabling him?
How do I know he is safe?
From the other side tell me what I should do?
Thank you
My husband has been diagnosed with general anxiety and depression, symptoms since October but been building waaaay before that and went to the GP 4 weeks ago.
He's gone from feeling down, to needing to drive for hours and the last 3 days staying out a a friends and now sleeping in his car.
I'm alone with 3 children under 5 and am freaking out a bit tonight, he texted he is "feeling fine" but when I said the oldest is asking if daddy will be home tonight he texted "feeling fine but don't know". I spoke to him before that at 4pm and he sounded off.
What do I do??? I don't want to pressure him and make him worse but FFS he's sleeping in a car, I haven't seen him apart from him running in to shower and drive oldest to reception this morning. Am I helping him or enabling him?
How do I know he is safe?
From the other side tell me what I should do?
Thank you