darkdaysgem
26-02-15, 15:07
Im completly new here and I need your help. Ive had a very difficult 8 months I nearly lost my dad and I couldnt cope ended up being off work for nearly 6 months and I still dont feel like im over it. I thought I felt better I came back to work at the beginning of the year. After being single for nearly 3 years I finally met someone 7 weeks ago who I felt I wanted to be with at around the same time as coming back to work took me completly by surprise. Things started off amazing and seemed very intense quickly which took me by surprise but already im seeing changes in him and its only been 7 weeks its as if the 'honey moon period' is already over and im really stressing out about it all.
I've told him how I feel and he thinks that nothing is wrong. Weve gone from speaking on the phone every night to seeing each other most nights to now barely speaking and i havent seen him in a week. I used to get loved up messages every day, come into work with soppy emails waiting for me and its already stopped I dont get that now I just get normal 'hows your day going' messages. But he feels nothing has changed and its just makeing me feel like an emotional wreck im now constantly on at him sayinmg things are not right and whats changed so soon but he says im overthinking and things are the same. Please help me because right now I feel far from normal and very stressed out I dont want to keep going on at him but im not happy at the same time.
I've told him how I feel and he thinks that nothing is wrong. Weve gone from speaking on the phone every night to seeing each other most nights to now barely speaking and i havent seen him in a week. I used to get loved up messages every day, come into work with soppy emails waiting for me and its already stopped I dont get that now I just get normal 'hows your day going' messages. But he feels nothing has changed and its just makeing me feel like an emotional wreck im now constantly on at him sayinmg things are not right and whats changed so soon but he says im overthinking and things are the same. Please help me because right now I feel far from normal and very stressed out I dont want to keep going on at him but im not happy at the same time.