.Poppy.
29-04-15, 01:47
So I'm just going through it now with work stuff. It's a big, massively long story - I've just gotten a job, have also got interviews for other jobs that I want more, etc. etc. Today was especially rough.
In regards to this thread, I have major problems with confrontation in general. For example:
> I had an interview this afternoon and was far too stressed to entertain going. I thought about it and knew that even if they offered me the position, I wouldn't take it, so I couldn't bring myself to go.
> I had another interview this morning. I went to it, and it seemed to go well, but they asked me if I currently worked on campus. I do, technically, I just took a job two days ago but am interviewing because I want a position in HR. Of course, on the spot I lied and said I didn't work on campus. I missed a call from them late on in the day and they left a voicemail saying they "needed to talk about the interview today". I'm paranoid that since they are in HR, they found out that I do have a job on campus and want to talk about that. I'm also paranoid that they'll call my current supervisor to inquire and I'll get in trouble. I am a student looking for a student position, so it's not necessarily "unprofessional" for me to interview around, but I'm nervous just the same.
I don't really want this job, either (it's not what I thought it was and won't give me what I'm looking for in terms of experience) so I honestly don't want to call them back, either.
> IF I manage to get a different job, I honestly don't know how I'd handle telling my current supervisor. Maturity tells me that I should give her notice; my track record says that I'll send her a detailed email and then avoid. I know that's a terrible way of handling it, I just can't make myself do any different - I break down when I think of having this conversation face to face.
I really want to get better and not be so afraid of these situations, I'm just not sure where to begin. I'm sort of seeing a college counselor, but am afraid that if I mention these things to her that she'll just think I'm very immature. I'm not trying to be - I just can't do it.
I'm feeling low and massively disappointed in myself; terrified of what's going to happen. I have another interview tomorrow in a different HR office on campus; maybe it will go better or maybe much worse. I honestly don't know what to think.
BTW - I'm not job skipping due to money or dislike of my current position really or anything like that; I'm a student and I'm interested in HR and I feel that I would learn more and prepare myself more for my future if I am in that environment. I may have accepted my current job prematurely, but it was advised that I accept it at the time since nothing else was a guarantee (and I guess still isn't).
Thanks, any advice is helpful.
In regards to this thread, I have major problems with confrontation in general. For example:
> I had an interview this afternoon and was far too stressed to entertain going. I thought about it and knew that even if they offered me the position, I wouldn't take it, so I couldn't bring myself to go.
> I had another interview this morning. I went to it, and it seemed to go well, but they asked me if I currently worked on campus. I do, technically, I just took a job two days ago but am interviewing because I want a position in HR. Of course, on the spot I lied and said I didn't work on campus. I missed a call from them late on in the day and they left a voicemail saying they "needed to talk about the interview today". I'm paranoid that since they are in HR, they found out that I do have a job on campus and want to talk about that. I'm also paranoid that they'll call my current supervisor to inquire and I'll get in trouble. I am a student looking for a student position, so it's not necessarily "unprofessional" for me to interview around, but I'm nervous just the same.
I don't really want this job, either (it's not what I thought it was and won't give me what I'm looking for in terms of experience) so I honestly don't want to call them back, either.
> IF I manage to get a different job, I honestly don't know how I'd handle telling my current supervisor. Maturity tells me that I should give her notice; my track record says that I'll send her a detailed email and then avoid. I know that's a terrible way of handling it, I just can't make myself do any different - I break down when I think of having this conversation face to face.
I really want to get better and not be so afraid of these situations, I'm just not sure where to begin. I'm sort of seeing a college counselor, but am afraid that if I mention these things to her that she'll just think I'm very immature. I'm not trying to be - I just can't do it.
I'm feeling low and massively disappointed in myself; terrified of what's going to happen. I have another interview tomorrow in a different HR office on campus; maybe it will go better or maybe much worse. I honestly don't know what to think.
BTW - I'm not job skipping due to money or dislike of my current position really or anything like that; I'm a student and I'm interested in HR and I feel that I would learn more and prepare myself more for my future if I am in that environment. I may have accepted my current job prematurely, but it was advised that I accept it at the time since nothing else was a guarantee (and I guess still isn't).
Thanks, any advice is helpful.