Henson1980
07-06-15, 08:04
I posted on here the other day for the first time regarding my anxious son and recieved some lovely replied which I found very helpful. I touched on the fact that I have an opportunity to move back to an area we used to live in where both my sons grandparents live as well as his dad, sister and school friends, his school is also conviently located a stones throw from there. I think it would make a big difference to his social life for the better. So my problem is I need to make a decision, I have someone who would like to exchange houses with me from there (just a street away from his dad and sister), I don't know what to do though, the area is not as nice as where I live now, some of the houses in the area are not very well looked after and my current partner who is a police officer (but who is only here 4 nights a week) would not be very impressed if I took it, I'm torn between doing the best thing for my son, (and me I suppose because I would like to move back) it's just the surrounding houses that are looking quite tatty and the estate the estate doesn't have the best reputation and also my partners views on it, that are making it a tough decision to make, I know no one can make my mind up for me but some helpful views would be really beneficial! Thanks guys!!