Srha
11-06-15, 15:15
Hi everyone
Was wondering if you could help me, this will be pretty long. This past year I have been having a terrible time with extreme anxiety and I have also been feeling depressed. I am on a waiting list at the moment for CBT therapy and I am also taking anti-depressants.
I have this friend who I have been friends with for around 10 years (we are both 19). She insisted that I open up to her about my depression and I thought seeing as we have been friends for so long I felt I could. She sadly didn't understand where I was coming from (I know this is not her fault).
She kind of made fun of my mental health problems. Everytime I would see her she would ask me questions about it kind of taking the mickey. As in ''do you still get those weird thoughts about hurting yourself?'', ''try not to hang yourself'' etc etc comments along these lines, that made me feel uncomfortable, she didn't seem particularly concerned when asking these questions. She also told her Mum and a few other friends about my issues which I wasn't too pleased about.
I distanced myself from her as I am not one for confrontation. I hadn't spoken to her in around 5 months when she text me out of the blue. This is how the conversation went... apart from the normal hello, how are you, what you been doing etc etc this is what annoyed me.
her - I still feel like you're going to hang yourself LOL
Me - That's not very funny is it?
her - LOL
Me - **** off
her - are you alright?
I don't know if I'm being over sensitive or why she has the obsession that I am going to hang myself (I'm not). I just feel like when I speak to her, she kills my vibe. She triggers me and I don't like it. I feel like friends (especially ones who you've known for as long as her) are supposed to lift you up? not bring you down?
Maybe it's my anxiety making me feel this way or maybe I am just particularly over sensitive? please tell me or please help me!
Obviously this friendship is important to me, I only have 1 other friend and I'm just wondering how I confront this situation.
Was wondering if you could help me, this will be pretty long. This past year I have been having a terrible time with extreme anxiety and I have also been feeling depressed. I am on a waiting list at the moment for CBT therapy and I am also taking anti-depressants.
I have this friend who I have been friends with for around 10 years (we are both 19). She insisted that I open up to her about my depression and I thought seeing as we have been friends for so long I felt I could. She sadly didn't understand where I was coming from (I know this is not her fault).
She kind of made fun of my mental health problems. Everytime I would see her she would ask me questions about it kind of taking the mickey. As in ''do you still get those weird thoughts about hurting yourself?'', ''try not to hang yourself'' etc etc comments along these lines, that made me feel uncomfortable, she didn't seem particularly concerned when asking these questions. She also told her Mum and a few other friends about my issues which I wasn't too pleased about.
I distanced myself from her as I am not one for confrontation. I hadn't spoken to her in around 5 months when she text me out of the blue. This is how the conversation went... apart from the normal hello, how are you, what you been doing etc etc this is what annoyed me.
her - I still feel like you're going to hang yourself LOL
Me - That's not very funny is it?
her - LOL
Me - **** off
her - are you alright?
I don't know if I'm being over sensitive or why she has the obsession that I am going to hang myself (I'm not). I just feel like when I speak to her, she kills my vibe. She triggers me and I don't like it. I feel like friends (especially ones who you've known for as long as her) are supposed to lift you up? not bring you down?
Maybe it's my anxiety making me feel this way or maybe I am just particularly over sensitive? please tell me or please help me!
Obviously this friendship is important to me, I only have 1 other friend and I'm just wondering how I confront this situation.