UrbanMark
30-07-15, 13:10
I was diagnosed Clinically depressed when I was 20 years old, I am now 43.
My family life wasn't the worst but I had an estranged relationship with my absentee mother, which got worse when she married. I didn't have a trusting family relationship with either of them. I was bullied at school from an early age and my step father verbally and physically abused and this got worse in my teenage years. I had repeated thoughts of suicide I was that low.Alcohol and drugs were a way to blot it out in my late teens and early twenties. I got into trouble with the police and was seriously assaulted a few times. I moved home six times during a ten year period and only felt safe in one of those locations. I was made redundant from my job at 21 and managed to get another a few months later. I've had digestive problems all my life that were only diagnosed when I was in my thirties. I have had Depression and General Anxiety disorder since my teens.
I have had CBT a few times and it was really helpful. I was reluctant to take any medication because I had heard a lot of bad stories about it, but eventually I went onto Citalopram six years ago - It changed my life. I had to come off Citalopram last year as my girlfriend and I were trying for a baby and Cital isn't exactly good for your libido. My son was born six weeks ago and we are over the moon with him. Life seems very good at the moment...
...so why is it that I have constant thoughts about all the bad things that were done to me when I was growing up? They seem to be on constant repeat inside my head, and it actually leads to headaches. I have thoughts/plans that entail harming the people that harmed me and I get angry when I think about it. It seems like I have a desperate need for some sort of revenge.
Any help advice would be appreciated.
My family life wasn't the worst but I had an estranged relationship with my absentee mother, which got worse when she married. I didn't have a trusting family relationship with either of them. I was bullied at school from an early age and my step father verbally and physically abused and this got worse in my teenage years. I had repeated thoughts of suicide I was that low.Alcohol and drugs were a way to blot it out in my late teens and early twenties. I got into trouble with the police and was seriously assaulted a few times. I moved home six times during a ten year period and only felt safe in one of those locations. I was made redundant from my job at 21 and managed to get another a few months later. I've had digestive problems all my life that were only diagnosed when I was in my thirties. I have had Depression and General Anxiety disorder since my teens.
I have had CBT a few times and it was really helpful. I was reluctant to take any medication because I had heard a lot of bad stories about it, but eventually I went onto Citalopram six years ago - It changed my life. I had to come off Citalopram last year as my girlfriend and I were trying for a baby and Cital isn't exactly good for your libido. My son was born six weeks ago and we are over the moon with him. Life seems very good at the moment...
...so why is it that I have constant thoughts about all the bad things that were done to me when I was growing up? They seem to be on constant repeat inside my head, and it actually leads to headaches. I have thoughts/plans that entail harming the people that harmed me and I get angry when I think about it. It seems like I have a desperate need for some sort of revenge.
Any help advice would be appreciated.