annnaa
01-09-15, 17:05
Hi everyone! Today school started and i prepared myself a lot. I searched for various remedies all over the internet and felt very hopeful reading stories about people who had been able to solve their problems.
I could barely sleep last night but felt confident when biking to school with my friends. I told myself nothing could prevent me of joinig a conversation with people who hardly know. But it didn't work. I always keep telling myself to be relaxed, stay cool and be myself. But i pretended to be utterly excited to see all my friends back but i can't help it - and i don't know if it's me or others - but i was put in my usual awkward and silent position again. I try and hang out with the less popular people who are really nice but my friends then start to think i'm annoying and bla bla bla...
At the end it went well though. There is this one friend "Sasha" who used to fight all the time with a selfish girl who considers herself a queen (and i often can't help it to want to impress her amthough i KNOW i hate her) and i remember she cried and told me how rude and mean she thought that girl was. I comforted her and we hung out a lot together and ended up as friends...but then the time came the other mean girl had no friends left and picked sasha out as her new best friend. Sasha was so flattered and happy she put me aside and i don't dare to talk about it with her.
But I came home and burst out in teers, not even trying to hide it from my sister. I just i lost all the confidence i found during the last 2 months and thinking about the fact that tomorrow and the 9 months after tomorrow i'll have to go through the same thing, is torture.
I just wish i didn't even care about having no friends. But i do. So how do you ignore other people's comments? i'm sick listening to the 'be yourself's and the 'don't care about others's and i absolutely don't want to live anymore, feeling homesick all the time, going red all the time, having no friends... It's school that frightens me, you know, during the holidays i felt bad but at least i had the time to learn. Now during school days i either cry in class (WHICH IS HORRIBLE :( ) and only have 4 hours to relax, cheer myself up, do my homework, do my chores, deal with the nerves for the next schoolday... Then i feel what REALLY BAD feels like.
I just want to live. Please answer i have nobody :'( please
I could barely sleep last night but felt confident when biking to school with my friends. I told myself nothing could prevent me of joinig a conversation with people who hardly know. But it didn't work. I always keep telling myself to be relaxed, stay cool and be myself. But i pretended to be utterly excited to see all my friends back but i can't help it - and i don't know if it's me or others - but i was put in my usual awkward and silent position again. I try and hang out with the less popular people who are really nice but my friends then start to think i'm annoying and bla bla bla...
At the end it went well though. There is this one friend "Sasha" who used to fight all the time with a selfish girl who considers herself a queen (and i often can't help it to want to impress her amthough i KNOW i hate her) and i remember she cried and told me how rude and mean she thought that girl was. I comforted her and we hung out a lot together and ended up as friends...but then the time came the other mean girl had no friends left and picked sasha out as her new best friend. Sasha was so flattered and happy she put me aside and i don't dare to talk about it with her.
But I came home and burst out in teers, not even trying to hide it from my sister. I just i lost all the confidence i found during the last 2 months and thinking about the fact that tomorrow and the 9 months after tomorrow i'll have to go through the same thing, is torture.
I just wish i didn't even care about having no friends. But i do. So how do you ignore other people's comments? i'm sick listening to the 'be yourself's and the 'don't care about others's and i absolutely don't want to live anymore, feeling homesick all the time, going red all the time, having no friends... It's school that frightens me, you know, during the holidays i felt bad but at least i had the time to learn. Now during school days i either cry in class (WHICH IS HORRIBLE :( ) and only have 4 hours to relax, cheer myself up, do my homework, do my chores, deal with the nerves for the next schoolday... Then i feel what REALLY BAD feels like.
I just want to live. Please answer i have nobody :'( please