annnaa
20-09-15, 21:51
This weekend just confirmed I'm definitely going crazy. Just like always, when surrounded by people, I wear a fake look and it's like my mind is functioning differently but still overwhelmed with anxiety. Tomorrow I have this kind of "skills week", which is meant for the school to get to know each other. We usually make a 5-day-trip away from Ghent (where I live & go to school) but there was this problem with the money so we stay in Ghent and we don't have to sleep over at school. Everyone is like "oh no, that's just the best part of the skills week! waking up together, talking together all night long,... and I'm just thinking this is the best thing that has happened to me this year, although I still have to make it through the week.
My sister and I usually never talk, but today we kind of like 'bonded'. It wasn't for long, we were just going to the neighbourhood party together and talked about normal stuff. But I realised how much I love her and how much I love her attention and how much I love being around her. But she does leave Ghent for her skills week, and as I didn't know she was already leaving tonight, I cried my eyes out right after she left. I was taking a shower and this doesn't happen too often, but I cried out loud, not really thinking about other people hearing me (though pretty sure the sound of the water was too noisy). I had to come home everyday without my sister "almost" spotting me crying. This may sound so weird, but I hate it when things change. I just hate moving on and getting out of my comfort zone. But honestly, I'm going crazy. I try to motivate myself, but my thoughts don't make sense anymore.
About that, I would like to know if I'm the only one whose life is like 1 big act? I'm spending most of the day pretending literally everything. Nothing I do is natural.
-when I walk outside and feel uncomfortable when I see that a group of loud people is about to pass me, I think about how weird I look and I pretend to be very excited about something while concentrating on how I'm walking and how my face looks
-when I have to say something in class and (:mad:) the teacher asks me another question, I know half of my class is staring at me and though I'm freaking out on the inside, I pretend to be looking casually at my books and back at the teacher. Most of my actions are based on what I see on TV, but something it comes out way too awkward and then I blush and start mumbling, crying, etc.
It's weird I cannot think of more examples. But am I the only one who feels this way? I feel fake, small, insecure and most of all, it's like I won't grow up. It's been 2 years since I was aware of this problem and now I'm 14 and it feels like I'm still 12. I often get treated this way, too, but that's not my biggest worry right now.
I just feel so tired of being terrified of my future, the guilt that I'm carrying with me, going insane and battling with my own mind everyday. I'm just so ****ing tired of caring so much and feeling everything so very deeply. I just want to be saved
My sister and I usually never talk, but today we kind of like 'bonded'. It wasn't for long, we were just going to the neighbourhood party together and talked about normal stuff. But I realised how much I love her and how much I love her attention and how much I love being around her. But she does leave Ghent for her skills week, and as I didn't know she was already leaving tonight, I cried my eyes out right after she left. I was taking a shower and this doesn't happen too often, but I cried out loud, not really thinking about other people hearing me (though pretty sure the sound of the water was too noisy). I had to come home everyday without my sister "almost" spotting me crying. This may sound so weird, but I hate it when things change. I just hate moving on and getting out of my comfort zone. But honestly, I'm going crazy. I try to motivate myself, but my thoughts don't make sense anymore.
About that, I would like to know if I'm the only one whose life is like 1 big act? I'm spending most of the day pretending literally everything. Nothing I do is natural.
-when I walk outside and feel uncomfortable when I see that a group of loud people is about to pass me, I think about how weird I look and I pretend to be very excited about something while concentrating on how I'm walking and how my face looks
-when I have to say something in class and (:mad:) the teacher asks me another question, I know half of my class is staring at me and though I'm freaking out on the inside, I pretend to be looking casually at my books and back at the teacher. Most of my actions are based on what I see on TV, but something it comes out way too awkward and then I blush and start mumbling, crying, etc.
It's weird I cannot think of more examples. But am I the only one who feels this way? I feel fake, small, insecure and most of all, it's like I won't grow up. It's been 2 years since I was aware of this problem and now I'm 14 and it feels like I'm still 12. I often get treated this way, too, but that's not my biggest worry right now.
I just feel so tired of being terrified of my future, the guilt that I'm carrying with me, going insane and battling with my own mind everyday. I'm just so ****ing tired of caring so much and feeling everything so very deeply. I just want to be saved