jthought
01-10-15, 13:47
Hi,
For many years I have wanted to move abroad to a particular country. I have visited before and fallen in love with the culture, people, etc. I got offered a job and everything was fantastic, it would allow me to gain residency and fulfil my dream. Things quickly fell apart though - I had a layover and was immediately having feelings of doubt. Overpowering emotions of being alone, abandoning my family and friends, thoughts of never seeing them again and how far from home i was, etc. This only got worse once I arrived. I was obsessing over how far from home i was and how i was a traitor to my family and friends. I came home within a month with a surprisingly understanding employer who has offered to keep the door open if I am ever again interested. I've spoken about this experience to my therapist who believes it is less to do with my mental state and rather a true reflection of me not really wanting to be there. I disagree however. Now the initial few months of 'being home relief' have passed, I feel really down about it and just want to be there again, but it feels impossible.
Thoughts?
For many years I have wanted to move abroad to a particular country. I have visited before and fallen in love with the culture, people, etc. I got offered a job and everything was fantastic, it would allow me to gain residency and fulfil my dream. Things quickly fell apart though - I had a layover and was immediately having feelings of doubt. Overpowering emotions of being alone, abandoning my family and friends, thoughts of never seeing them again and how far from home i was, etc. This only got worse once I arrived. I was obsessing over how far from home i was and how i was a traitor to my family and friends. I came home within a month with a surprisingly understanding employer who has offered to keep the door open if I am ever again interested. I've spoken about this experience to my therapist who believes it is less to do with my mental state and rather a true reflection of me not really wanting to be there. I disagree however. Now the initial few months of 'being home relief' have passed, I feel really down about it and just want to be there again, but it feels impossible.
Thoughts?