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I was just wondering if anyone with social phobia is managing communal living? I'm currently living with 6 other women, and I often find myself in my room waiting till they are either all asleep or out till i cook. Does anyone manage it? and does anyone have any tips?
Roxy x
Hi Roxy
I did struggle to eat in front of anybody for a long time. I never even realised until i read it as a social-anx. trait, even though people had said to me 'i never see you eat'.
Anyway i did start to try and change by having dinner at table with family and eating in front of other people i knew quite well, mainly at work. And i think just the general 'i am ok' and 'everyones not looking at me' attitudes made it abit of a non issue.
I still mainly eat on my own but i dont avoid in general, even though i have to think about sometimes.
Anyway dont go hungrey, you take care
Andrew
hi roxy
try too join in with meal times and eat little bits at a time,as time goes by,you should learn too love food,think im going too enjoy this this looks really good ,it smells really good ,get some cook books and try new things,im a chocoholic myself,some times i cant go with out a bar of chocolate .
bish
I bit the bullet this week and went away with my course. We stayed in a hostel for the first few nights, so it was communal everything, eating, sleeping, showering. Had a lot of trouble the first few nights, but I managed it in the end, and had a great time! :D I couldn't eat whilst i was there because of the food allergies, but I manged something in the kitchen with my flat mates so i think i'm getting there :)
Roxy x
Good one Roxy! well done! Kate
hi roxy
well done, jumped in at the deep end and came up swimming, sounds like your heading in a positive direction. keep us posted on how your doing.
take care andrew
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