Audi
04-01-16, 15:29
I know this may sounds funny or strange but i am currently struggle with this issue.
10 years ago. I was a car lover and not into watches...i once swear before i will never buy or wear any watches until i have my own credit card as i afraid that i may neglect my car hobby. The reason i made this vow is because i know i will not able to get a credit card in a short period as i have some bad records with the bank. And also at that time i was struggling between car and watch hobby so i made this vow as i still prefer car more than watch that time.. i dont know whether i was at the right state of mind (anxiety) when making this vow . After making the vow i feel better.
10 years later which is now. I am married with kids.... i find that car hobby is totally a waste of money....i slowly i switch to luxury watch hobby as i found out that watch value dont depreciate as much as car and some watch might even increased in its value in times..
The worst thing happen just now when i was shopping with my wife and happen to pass by some credit card booth... an intrusive thought comes in and remind me of the swear and vow i made 10years ago that i can only buy or wear a watch when i have own credit card...the thought is telling me that i have to obey to the vow i had made ..... as i till now still do not own any cards due to the previous bad credit record.... but due to my hardwork i manage to earn big buck compare to the past.
Now the thought keep telling me that i have to keep to my vow and only can buy watch when i have my own credit card one day.... now i feel stress as i dont want to give up my watch hobby ....watch give me confident and its a very good alternative way to save money... as i am the type of person which spend almost every single cent i had earn. I finally started saving money and had my own saving partly due to my watch hobby and my family commitment
I somehow also feel that Watch hobby may also help abit on my anxiety.... i found that my anxiety switched to my watch then other harm ocd and rocd issue.... although sometimes its still relaspe.
I know its a long story but i sincerly hope that someone could advise or to share if they have the same experienc. Thanks
10 years ago. I was a car lover and not into watches...i once swear before i will never buy or wear any watches until i have my own credit card as i afraid that i may neglect my car hobby. The reason i made this vow is because i know i will not able to get a credit card in a short period as i have some bad records with the bank. And also at that time i was struggling between car and watch hobby so i made this vow as i still prefer car more than watch that time.. i dont know whether i was at the right state of mind (anxiety) when making this vow . After making the vow i feel better.
10 years later which is now. I am married with kids.... i find that car hobby is totally a waste of money....i slowly i switch to luxury watch hobby as i found out that watch value dont depreciate as much as car and some watch might even increased in its value in times..
The worst thing happen just now when i was shopping with my wife and happen to pass by some credit card booth... an intrusive thought comes in and remind me of the swear and vow i made 10years ago that i can only buy or wear a watch when i have own credit card...the thought is telling me that i have to obey to the vow i had made ..... as i till now still do not own any cards due to the previous bad credit record.... but due to my hardwork i manage to earn big buck compare to the past.
Now the thought keep telling me that i have to keep to my vow and only can buy watch when i have my own credit card one day.... now i feel stress as i dont want to give up my watch hobby ....watch give me confident and its a very good alternative way to save money... as i am the type of person which spend almost every single cent i had earn. I finally started saving money and had my own saving partly due to my watch hobby and my family commitment
I somehow also feel that Watch hobby may also help abit on my anxiety.... i found that my anxiety switched to my watch then other harm ocd and rocd issue.... although sometimes its still relaspe.
I know its a long story but i sincerly hope that someone could advise or to share if they have the same experienc. Thanks