Toby2000
30-01-16, 23:46
Hi,
Right if you know me, or read some of my past posts you'll know that I have HA.. centered around my mum. She's really stressed right now and since Christmas it's really been going downhill.. she's stressed with money (it's not that big of a problem, but she's single), worrying about ever having a happy life, stressed about me because I'm a big handful at home because I'm so anxious (I'm getting help) and she always worries about how I'll cope in the future with my anxiety, on top of having a very physical cleaning job (she works 3-4 hours 2-4 times a week).
My point is, my mum told me that she was losing weight in a bid to get me to realize how much of an impact I'm having on her life, which wasn't done maliciously on her part but like she's really desperate right now I think she wanted me to realize that I'm stressing her so much.
But having HA, I see all these symptoms differently so I'm scared she has cancer or something horrible as she's losing weight.
7 pounds since around Christmas she told me.
Is that anything to worry about? She loses weight really easily like when my sister had cancer when she was younger she lost 1.5 stone and last Feb even she lost about a bit of weight due to me stressing her, so she says.
I'm just so worried like I said that it's cancer, because she stopped smoking like a week ago and she's tired sometimes because she gets up really early in the morning and often after she's been cleaning she has an hour or so.. but I'm just so concerned as I see this as a symptom of cancer.. ugh.. plus she feels cold a lot like when it's average temp in the living room I'll be in a t-shirt and shorts and I'll feel nothing and she'll have a cardigan on with a blanket over her.. seriously? But that makes me wonder if she has a thyroid problem
I don't even know anymore
Right if you know me, or read some of my past posts you'll know that I have HA.. centered around my mum. She's really stressed right now and since Christmas it's really been going downhill.. she's stressed with money (it's not that big of a problem, but she's single), worrying about ever having a happy life, stressed about me because I'm a big handful at home because I'm so anxious (I'm getting help) and she always worries about how I'll cope in the future with my anxiety, on top of having a very physical cleaning job (she works 3-4 hours 2-4 times a week).
My point is, my mum told me that she was losing weight in a bid to get me to realize how much of an impact I'm having on her life, which wasn't done maliciously on her part but like she's really desperate right now I think she wanted me to realize that I'm stressing her so much.
But having HA, I see all these symptoms differently so I'm scared she has cancer or something horrible as she's losing weight.
7 pounds since around Christmas she told me.
Is that anything to worry about? She loses weight really easily like when my sister had cancer when she was younger she lost 1.5 stone and last Feb even she lost about a bit of weight due to me stressing her, so she says.
I'm just so worried like I said that it's cancer, because she stopped smoking like a week ago and she's tired sometimes because she gets up really early in the morning and often after she's been cleaning she has an hour or so.. but I'm just so concerned as I see this as a symptom of cancer.. ugh.. plus she feels cold a lot like when it's average temp in the living room I'll be in a t-shirt and shorts and I'll feel nothing and she'll have a cardigan on with a blanket over her.. seriously? But that makes me wonder if she has a thyroid problem
I don't even know anymore