elibabez
04-02-16, 19:16
Well i have an ongoing issue
i volunteer, i still class it as work
i love volunteering, as i am a genuinely nice girl who puts everyone first and i love giving back to society
however, the manager here just flips out at me
well there are two managers, and whilst they have never directly shouted at me
there have been many instances of them being moody towards me, and its just really unfair
i always turn up early, smile at customers, offer to help with any jobs that need doing in the store
yet i always feel unappreciated
and today, the assistant manager, who ive told him i have anxiety, and thus explaining why sometimes i can be paranoid said ``well just think to yourself, that people arent always neccesarly angry with you, and think before you make decisions about hassling me when im trying to count up the till``.
those were his exact words
now this assistant manager is leaving at the end of this month
but the other manager im worried he will tell him to get rid of me because i am too much of a hassle or something :wacko:
i dont know what to do
i love volunteering at this place as its my social life, most of the staff there are lovely
but the managers, who seem to view me as totally replacable and non dependable as they have loads of volunteers, just seem to treat me like garbage, and flip out on me when theyve had a bad day
i am not sure if quitting is an option, because i do love the staff and customers and enjoy the work i do
plus im relying on the manager here to give me a reference when a good paid work opportunity comes up,
as because of my anxiety, my previous work history/resume is poor to non existent
i dont know what i should do,
are there any hotlines i can call or something
any replies appreciated or suggestions
i volunteer, i still class it as work
i love volunteering, as i am a genuinely nice girl who puts everyone first and i love giving back to society
however, the manager here just flips out at me
well there are two managers, and whilst they have never directly shouted at me
there have been many instances of them being moody towards me, and its just really unfair
i always turn up early, smile at customers, offer to help with any jobs that need doing in the store
yet i always feel unappreciated
and today, the assistant manager, who ive told him i have anxiety, and thus explaining why sometimes i can be paranoid said ``well just think to yourself, that people arent always neccesarly angry with you, and think before you make decisions about hassling me when im trying to count up the till``.
those were his exact words
now this assistant manager is leaving at the end of this month
but the other manager im worried he will tell him to get rid of me because i am too much of a hassle or something :wacko:
i dont know what to do
i love volunteering at this place as its my social life, most of the staff there are lovely
but the managers, who seem to view me as totally replacable and non dependable as they have loads of volunteers, just seem to treat me like garbage, and flip out on me when theyve had a bad day
i am not sure if quitting is an option, because i do love the staff and customers and enjoy the work i do
plus im relying on the manager here to give me a reference when a good paid work opportunity comes up,
as because of my anxiety, my previous work history/resume is poor to non existent
i dont know what i should do,
are there any hotlines i can call or something
any replies appreciated or suggestions