claire_2910
24-02-16, 12:43
Hi everyone,
I need some advice.
I have a toxic friend. By this, I mean she is unhealthy for my progression. Her energy is very negative, when i have spent time with her i feel like i have to have a lie down afterwards - mentally draining. She has very selfish ways and is not a 'true' friend.
Here is my problem.
I created a social group to meet new people on Meetup - she is a member too. Although there are lots of group members there can be a minimum of 8 people in the group. Before I started the group I only knew her so we would go together, but I still don't know many people in the group.
I know the only way I relieve the anxiety i get around her is if i removed her from the group of course this sounds easy, but i am not the sort of person to cause an argument. If I were to talk to her it would cause an issue, she's very dramatic. I have tried mingling more with other people in the group and tried to message her back less, but she still feels we are friends and tbh i just want to have no association.
HELP
I need some advice.
I have a toxic friend. By this, I mean she is unhealthy for my progression. Her energy is very negative, when i have spent time with her i feel like i have to have a lie down afterwards - mentally draining. She has very selfish ways and is not a 'true' friend.
Here is my problem.
I created a social group to meet new people on Meetup - she is a member too. Although there are lots of group members there can be a minimum of 8 people in the group. Before I started the group I only knew her so we would go together, but I still don't know many people in the group.
I know the only way I relieve the anxiety i get around her is if i removed her from the group of course this sounds easy, but i am not the sort of person to cause an argument. If I were to talk to her it would cause an issue, she's very dramatic. I have tried mingling more with other people in the group and tried to message her back less, but she still feels we are friends and tbh i just want to have no association.
HELP