char123
12-03-16, 22:57
Hi,
This is my second post on this board and I think that I have OCD (pure O) but I haven't been diagnosed with it as I don't want to go to the doctors. Anyway, my mind seems to be non stop at the moment with trying to decide if I'm attracted to my own brother or if it's my mind playing tricks on me. I feel like I'm at war with my own thoughts and I'm not really sure what my 'real' thoughts and feelings are anymore. At the moment I'm trying to reduce the thought that I'm attracted to him by reminding myself that they're just thoughts and the fact that I'm scared of them means that I will never act on them.
But here's my new issue that my mind has brought attention to (to make me feel like I actually am or will be attracted to him). So when I was younger maybe like 5 years ago I remember obsessing over the idea that I was gay and I remember getting over it by telling my mum and she saying that it doesn't really matter if I am and then realising that it won't be the end of the world. And now I'm quite open to the idea that I could be gay or whatever (I'd prefer not to be but it doesn't scare me). I find other women pretty but I'm not sure if I 'like' them in a sexual way but I think im quite open to the idea of 'experimenting' and finding out- lol sorry if this is too personal :')- so anyway now I'm afraid that accepting these thoughts about my brother will mean that I'm just in denial and I actually am attracted to him! Honestly, I really don't want to be and I feel like it would ruin my life if I was!!! Also, I think this is the reason why I'm afraid to accept these thought because I'd feel like it would subconsciously normalise them and mean that I am or would become sexually attracted to him :/
I hate having these thoughts and I just want to be normal!! So why does my own mind fight with itself in making me even consider this? In the past year, I have had the thoughts that I've got illnesses, wanted to hurt people and that Im attracted to children but these eventually pass and I move on to another. But this one about my brother has probably been in the back of my mind for like 6 months!! I'm just so afraid that I actually am and I'm using pure O as an excuse to having these thoughts :( I'm so messed up and scared these thoughts will never go away.
Thanks for reading!! I'd appreciate any reply on what you think :) what do you think I could do to stop this thought? I'd actually be happy to just move on to another odd thought but non are as distressing as this one.
This is my second post on this board and I think that I have OCD (pure O) but I haven't been diagnosed with it as I don't want to go to the doctors. Anyway, my mind seems to be non stop at the moment with trying to decide if I'm attracted to my own brother or if it's my mind playing tricks on me. I feel like I'm at war with my own thoughts and I'm not really sure what my 'real' thoughts and feelings are anymore. At the moment I'm trying to reduce the thought that I'm attracted to him by reminding myself that they're just thoughts and the fact that I'm scared of them means that I will never act on them.
But here's my new issue that my mind has brought attention to (to make me feel like I actually am or will be attracted to him). So when I was younger maybe like 5 years ago I remember obsessing over the idea that I was gay and I remember getting over it by telling my mum and she saying that it doesn't really matter if I am and then realising that it won't be the end of the world. And now I'm quite open to the idea that I could be gay or whatever (I'd prefer not to be but it doesn't scare me). I find other women pretty but I'm not sure if I 'like' them in a sexual way but I think im quite open to the idea of 'experimenting' and finding out- lol sorry if this is too personal :')- so anyway now I'm afraid that accepting these thoughts about my brother will mean that I'm just in denial and I actually am attracted to him! Honestly, I really don't want to be and I feel like it would ruin my life if I was!!! Also, I think this is the reason why I'm afraid to accept these thought because I'd feel like it would subconsciously normalise them and mean that I am or would become sexually attracted to him :/
I hate having these thoughts and I just want to be normal!! So why does my own mind fight with itself in making me even consider this? In the past year, I have had the thoughts that I've got illnesses, wanted to hurt people and that Im attracted to children but these eventually pass and I move on to another. But this one about my brother has probably been in the back of my mind for like 6 months!! I'm just so afraid that I actually am and I'm using pure O as an excuse to having these thoughts :( I'm so messed up and scared these thoughts will never go away.
Thanks for reading!! I'd appreciate any reply on what you think :) what do you think I could do to stop this thought? I'd actually be happy to just move on to another odd thought but non are as distressing as this one.