Notme
19-03-16, 16:20
Hi everyone.
I'm really struggling to understand/get to grips with what's going on and I need some help figuring stuff out.
Do you read my other posts then you'll be aware of my situation... I personally feel the Anxiety is my biggest issue and I'm starting to realise I've possibly had it for years.
I'd like to know how anxiety works in a relationship. My now ex partner has told me that I can be possessive and untrusting. The thing is I don't see it and I do trust her implicitly. However at times I do worry about things and then that sets my mind off on a worrying journey. I also can't help saying things. Ie were going through a separation and I'm struggling to deal with it. I know it's tough for her because of the situation but she has not told anyone at all so is bottling it up. She then lashes out at me. Instead of me keeping my distance I'll sit there worrying about the things she's said and eventually they play on my mind that much I have to say how I'm feeling. This then goes down like a lead balloon.
I feel like I'm at my wits end and no one knows what I'm going through.
So anxiety in a relationship how does it work?
I'm really struggling to understand/get to grips with what's going on and I need some help figuring stuff out.
Do you read my other posts then you'll be aware of my situation... I personally feel the Anxiety is my biggest issue and I'm starting to realise I've possibly had it for years.
I'd like to know how anxiety works in a relationship. My now ex partner has told me that I can be possessive and untrusting. The thing is I don't see it and I do trust her implicitly. However at times I do worry about things and then that sets my mind off on a worrying journey. I also can't help saying things. Ie were going through a separation and I'm struggling to deal with it. I know it's tough for her because of the situation but she has not told anyone at all so is bottling it up. She then lashes out at me. Instead of me keeping my distance I'll sit there worrying about the things she's said and eventually they play on my mind that much I have to say how I'm feeling. This then goes down like a lead balloon.
I feel like I'm at my wits end and no one knows what I'm going through.
So anxiety in a relationship how does it work?