celestial
25-03-16, 17:25
I think I might be pregnant...I have some of the symptoms and no period.
My partner and I have not been using contraception (not to get pregnant but we just ran out) and it is possible that it's happened. This is making my head spin for all kinds of reasons:
- I'm desperate for a baby but he isn't, we've talked about it and never really resolved the issue but I worry that if we had one, he'd leave
- Part of the reason I've accepted his position is that I'm phobic of childbirth and however much I want kids, this fear almost always wins/stops me from taking steps that would make it happen.
- If I am pregnant i have done some things that would not be good for the baby in the past few weeks including a dental x ray when I didn't think to tell them that I might be pregnant (as I didn't think I could be).
Period is late enough that I could now take a test, but the thought of doing this makes me feel sick. The reason being that I will be devastated if it's negative, and scared beyond belief if it's positive.
Either way I am more anxious and filled with dread than I can possibly describe. I've had two massive panic attacks (over other things) in the past 2 days and I am terrified of the outcome, whatever it is.
Can someone please offer some words of support if nothing else? I feel so alone, and my partner is away this weekend leaving me on my own.
My partner and I have not been using contraception (not to get pregnant but we just ran out) and it is possible that it's happened. This is making my head spin for all kinds of reasons:
- I'm desperate for a baby but he isn't, we've talked about it and never really resolved the issue but I worry that if we had one, he'd leave
- Part of the reason I've accepted his position is that I'm phobic of childbirth and however much I want kids, this fear almost always wins/stops me from taking steps that would make it happen.
- If I am pregnant i have done some things that would not be good for the baby in the past few weeks including a dental x ray when I didn't think to tell them that I might be pregnant (as I didn't think I could be).
Period is late enough that I could now take a test, but the thought of doing this makes me feel sick. The reason being that I will be devastated if it's negative, and scared beyond belief if it's positive.
Either way I am more anxious and filled with dread than I can possibly describe. I've had two massive panic attacks (over other things) in the past 2 days and I am terrified of the outcome, whatever it is.
Can someone please offer some words of support if nothing else? I feel so alone, and my partner is away this weekend leaving me on my own.