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09-06-16, 21:48
Hi Everyone,
Firstly, if this is in the incorrect forum, please move as appropriate.
My partner is suffering from what seems to be severe OCD in relation to children. We have a toddler and the other night she had a panic attack as she had highly violent images towards the little one.
My partner has been going to therapy sessions for around a year to help with depression and anxiety, but this is getting worse and to be quite frank, I do not know if I can cope with it as I suffer from mild depression too.
We cannot watch the same films (violence), TV programmes (violence), or even listen to music (lyrics about breakups and sadness) together. I am starting to fear leaving my partner with our child as my partner is saying that she doesn't know if she is capable of hurting the child. They have a great relationship, and the child is loved by both of us, but I am beginning to worry.
I have encouraged my partner to speak to their parents, work bosses and the doctors. Tablets have been prescribed and the therapy is still ongoing. I seem to get a daily call from my partner for re-assurance and guidance as to what is happening is something that they need to fight by employing a positive thought process, and recognition as to when the thoughts begin to manifest.
I am extremely unhappy and feel like I'm walking on eggshells. I'm not sure how much longer I can keep advising the same things as there seems to be little effort to combat the issues from within on my partners account.
I'm sure this is not the case, but I am becoming frustrated with having to repeat the same things every day/week etc. My partner has become very distant.
I'm hoping that the relationship isn't beyond repair, but we have talked about that if we felt that we couldn't cope, we should talk about it.
Can anyone please help me? I am strong on the outside, but inside, I'm crumbling. I use my car journeys to and from work to have a cry but I feel so drained.
Thanks for reading.
Firstly, if this is in the incorrect forum, please move as appropriate.
My partner is suffering from what seems to be severe OCD in relation to children. We have a toddler and the other night she had a panic attack as she had highly violent images towards the little one.
My partner has been going to therapy sessions for around a year to help with depression and anxiety, but this is getting worse and to be quite frank, I do not know if I can cope with it as I suffer from mild depression too.
We cannot watch the same films (violence), TV programmes (violence), or even listen to music (lyrics about breakups and sadness) together. I am starting to fear leaving my partner with our child as my partner is saying that she doesn't know if she is capable of hurting the child. They have a great relationship, and the child is loved by both of us, but I am beginning to worry.
I have encouraged my partner to speak to their parents, work bosses and the doctors. Tablets have been prescribed and the therapy is still ongoing. I seem to get a daily call from my partner for re-assurance and guidance as to what is happening is something that they need to fight by employing a positive thought process, and recognition as to when the thoughts begin to manifest.
I am extremely unhappy and feel like I'm walking on eggshells. I'm not sure how much longer I can keep advising the same things as there seems to be little effort to combat the issues from within on my partners account.
I'm sure this is not the case, but I am becoming frustrated with having to repeat the same things every day/week etc. My partner has become very distant.
I'm hoping that the relationship isn't beyond repair, but we have talked about that if we felt that we couldn't cope, we should talk about it.
Can anyone please help me? I am strong on the outside, but inside, I'm crumbling. I use my car journeys to and from work to have a cry but I feel so drained.
Thanks for reading.