belle
15-03-07, 23:35
Every day that passes i feel that i really am sinking into a hole with NO way out at all. My agoraphobia is getting worse these days. Yesterday we went to the town and my mother made me park somewhere where we never park and we had to walk a lot further than normal and by the time we got to the shop we needed to go into all i kept thinking was how far from the freaking car we were and i started getting panicky. I wanted to leave there and then, but my mum was exchanging something for my sister and made me wonder off to take my mind of the panic. Thankfully it did go very quickly, but my point is why the hell did it come at all??? I am so sick of feeling scared when i go out.
Last time i posted i mentioned about getting a new car. Well, not having a car for 5 weeks has certainly had a crappy effect on me. I bought myself a lovely 54 reg Fiesta Finesse and i picked it up yesterday (so i've got no excuse about it being too old to drive) but now i am too scared to drive it anywhere. I sat in it today and panicked and had to get out again. How pathetic and stupid am i?
I feel that i am the way i am for a reason, perhaps call it karma. I know i have been a bi*ch in the past. Whatever i have done in my life i have always made an effort to make the best of a situation but now, after having agora for 9 years i've proved to myself that i am a failure and that this is one thing i personally can't recover from, but sadly along with that i know that my husband WILL leave me and what worries me more is that one day my mother (my main support) won't be around and then what the hell will i do? I really don't feel i can get better. I am too scared of the feelings. I am too scared to just "let them flow over me".....I am just too scared of everything.
I've been having loads of odd feelings all over my body. I've had a terrible feeling in my spine but i don't recall straining it. My arm today was dead heavy and achy. I constantly feel exhausted and just want to sleep...all day. I am sitting here daily getting fatter and fatter and hating myself for being so crap.
My husband comes home tomorrow after being away for 6 weeks training and i just KNOW i will start getting crap about getting a new car and not being able to drive it, then i will get upset and want to harm myself. Ugh...what a mess.
Sorry i am being so negative.
Sarah x
Last time i posted i mentioned about getting a new car. Well, not having a car for 5 weeks has certainly had a crappy effect on me. I bought myself a lovely 54 reg Fiesta Finesse and i picked it up yesterday (so i've got no excuse about it being too old to drive) but now i am too scared to drive it anywhere. I sat in it today and panicked and had to get out again. How pathetic and stupid am i?
I feel that i am the way i am for a reason, perhaps call it karma. I know i have been a bi*ch in the past. Whatever i have done in my life i have always made an effort to make the best of a situation but now, after having agora for 9 years i've proved to myself that i am a failure and that this is one thing i personally can't recover from, but sadly along with that i know that my husband WILL leave me and what worries me more is that one day my mother (my main support) won't be around and then what the hell will i do? I really don't feel i can get better. I am too scared of the feelings. I am too scared to just "let them flow over me".....I am just too scared of everything.
I've been having loads of odd feelings all over my body. I've had a terrible feeling in my spine but i don't recall straining it. My arm today was dead heavy and achy. I constantly feel exhausted and just want to sleep...all day. I am sitting here daily getting fatter and fatter and hating myself for being so crap.
My husband comes home tomorrow after being away for 6 weeks training and i just KNOW i will start getting crap about getting a new car and not being able to drive it, then i will get upset and want to harm myself. Ugh...what a mess.
Sorry i am being so negative.
Sarah x