DisgracedAngel
22-07-16, 19:49
I seem to have social anxiety in certain situations (as opposed to my 24/7 health anxiety issues). It all builds up and I feel really, really run down mentally and physically.
But my social anxiety is starting to rear it's ugly head when it comes to my in laws. My husband told me Monday that his mother invited us around for Sunday dinner and I've been dreading it. I guess I get on with them just fine despite some issues, but because he (my husband) isn't that close to his family and tries to keep his distance (for good reason), he doesn't really talk to them much and tends to stare at his phone the whole time we are visiting to avoid conversation, leaving me to make small talk with his mother, who really, really gets on my nerves. I want to hide behind my phone too but don't want to be rude :-( I can never seem to get.out of there fast enough. The husband feels the same but as he is the "saint" of the family, he can do no wrong and I am sure I am seen as the horrible daughter in law.
I am not looking forward to Sunday AT ALL. It just makes for an awkward, uncomfortable situation for me. Does anyone else tend to get a bit anxious when it comes to their in laws? I know this isn't something I can avoid...I did choose to marry into the family so i suppose I need to get over this!
But my social anxiety is starting to rear it's ugly head when it comes to my in laws. My husband told me Monday that his mother invited us around for Sunday dinner and I've been dreading it. I guess I get on with them just fine despite some issues, but because he (my husband) isn't that close to his family and tries to keep his distance (for good reason), he doesn't really talk to them much and tends to stare at his phone the whole time we are visiting to avoid conversation, leaving me to make small talk with his mother, who really, really gets on my nerves. I want to hide behind my phone too but don't want to be rude :-( I can never seem to get.out of there fast enough. The husband feels the same but as he is the "saint" of the family, he can do no wrong and I am sure I am seen as the horrible daughter in law.
I am not looking forward to Sunday AT ALL. It just makes for an awkward, uncomfortable situation for me. Does anyone else tend to get a bit anxious when it comes to their in laws? I know this isn't something I can avoid...I did choose to marry into the family so i suppose I need to get over this!