Revan
31-08-16, 10:59
Hi all,
Im currently looking at houses with my GF, and ive come over with strong anxiety.
I was diagnosed about 2 1/2 years ago, but all my life ive avoided potential situations where I might get a kicking.
Considering im 6 ft 3 and well built, its irrational.
We put in an offer before, and I had to repeal it as I went as bad as I did when it started. First it was the money, then safety.
We have both found a nice house, but I keep worrying about safety, its a lovely area and somewhere we would want to go, but I cant shake it.
Im ok with the money etc this time, and ive thought of having a camera and alarm installed, but I just cant get over it.
Ive never been completely on my own before except a holiday where symptoms really started. I want to do this for her, and I don't know how to get better.
I am on 20mg of fluox, but I cant stand the idea of being targeted or her being assaulted etc. I think if I was completely on my own this wouldn't be happening.
Any help or advice is great.
---------- Post added at 09:59 ---------- Previous post was at 09:45 ----------
Asking price has been met by someone else, but I reckon this will still all happen again...
Im currently looking at houses with my GF, and ive come over with strong anxiety.
I was diagnosed about 2 1/2 years ago, but all my life ive avoided potential situations where I might get a kicking.
Considering im 6 ft 3 and well built, its irrational.
We put in an offer before, and I had to repeal it as I went as bad as I did when it started. First it was the money, then safety.
We have both found a nice house, but I keep worrying about safety, its a lovely area and somewhere we would want to go, but I cant shake it.
Im ok with the money etc this time, and ive thought of having a camera and alarm installed, but I just cant get over it.
Ive never been completely on my own before except a holiday where symptoms really started. I want to do this for her, and I don't know how to get better.
I am on 20mg of fluox, but I cant stand the idea of being targeted or her being assaulted etc. I think if I was completely on my own this wouldn't be happening.
Any help or advice is great.
---------- Post added at 09:59 ---------- Previous post was at 09:45 ----------
Asking price has been met by someone else, but I reckon this will still all happen again...