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08-09-16, 09:49
Hi guys, was on this website years ago it's fantastic, just wanted to share with you my recent storey. Any view on the situation would be really appreciated...
I been with my girlfriend 5 years, she always known about my agoraphobia, anxiety and panic attacks. She's really supportive always has been, I supported her through uni for 3 years I paid for everything for her, she is now a mental health nurse and has an NHS job. We got engaged at Christmas and bought our first house what iv worked 7 days a week on and nights (I'm a joiner)
So at this job she got matey with a guy and I found messages on her phone in January this year, harmless but she saved him name as a girs name. I let it go, then in March this year I found emails of them asking if they would cheat on each other's partners. He said he would, she said she wouldn't, then last week I found more messages a few days after and it looked like a planned get to get get for sex. He said "I can't wait I need this I will do anything you ask" she replied "well you should give it" then it looks like he let her down somehow and she replied "are you f##king joking me :("
I asked her she denied it, so I then got in contact with the guy, he was really nice and said he was sorry, he admitted they was going to meet up. As you will know I'm in bits, I love this girl so much, if I was a strong person I think I would end it, she told me she wasn't happy because we don't go anywhere (agoraphobia) which I totally understand she says she's suffering too. But she should end it then sleep with this guy right? I would love any comment because I'm not sleeping and it's making my anxiety worse.
So sorry for the long essay , love to you all xxx
I been with my girlfriend 5 years, she always known about my agoraphobia, anxiety and panic attacks. She's really supportive always has been, I supported her through uni for 3 years I paid for everything for her, she is now a mental health nurse and has an NHS job. We got engaged at Christmas and bought our first house what iv worked 7 days a week on and nights (I'm a joiner)
So at this job she got matey with a guy and I found messages on her phone in January this year, harmless but she saved him name as a girs name. I let it go, then in March this year I found emails of them asking if they would cheat on each other's partners. He said he would, she said she wouldn't, then last week I found more messages a few days after and it looked like a planned get to get get for sex. He said "I can't wait I need this I will do anything you ask" she replied "well you should give it" then it looks like he let her down somehow and she replied "are you f##king joking me :("
I asked her she denied it, so I then got in contact with the guy, he was really nice and said he was sorry, he admitted they was going to meet up. As you will know I'm in bits, I love this girl so much, if I was a strong person I think I would end it, she told me she wasn't happy because we don't go anywhere (agoraphobia) which I totally understand she says she's suffering too. But she should end it then sleep with this guy right? I would love any comment because I'm not sleeping and it's making my anxiety worse.
So sorry for the long essay , love to you all xxx