shotokansho
20-11-16, 22:47
Hello everyone.
Really need someone to talk too, I can't stop crying. I hope this post isn't to long, I just need something, not sure what, maybe I'm just looking for support and virtual hugs. 6 months ago i started on venlafaxine after taking a near fatal overdose. I guess they were OK at first but the last few weeks I've noticed that I've been suffering with symptoms very similar to that of withdrawals. I've never forgotten to take a pill though. I've also noticed that I've been over agitated and my disturbing thoughts have been worsening. My sleeping has got bad because my body keeps having spasms when I need to sleep. Sometimes it's just my legs Jerking but other times it can be my whole body. I had also been crying a lot and getting upset over the smallest thing. I'd decided that I needed to come off these Meds.
Anyway things have been going bad at work, I only work part time in a kitchen, just two staff, me and my manager. My manager shouts at me in front of customers and gives me a hard time if I'm sick. She has no sympathy or understanding of my illness and just thinks I'm being stupid. Yet she can go off sick no problem. I also feel like I always get the blame for things going wrong, I feel small at work and insignificant so I feel I deserve no better. My finances have been going bad too. Working tax credits decided to take £80 a week off me, when my wages go in its mostly taken by bills so there isn't a lot left, so basically I'm living off £9 a week of working tax credits. Im really struggling, and I'm wondering how I'm going to cope at Christmas.
I have a boyfriend, hes amazing and I love him and he loves me but I'm so frightened of upsetting him that I don't open up to him or tell him what's wrong. Every day I'm scared I'm going to lose him.
My eldest son is 19 and he is basically living in my living room with his girlfriend. She has mental health issues and my son told me the other day that he was going to be a dad but she lost the baby. They are arguing a lot and he loses his temper and punches things in my house and shouts and swears. I always end up crying because I can't stand it and the stress is too much for me.
It was all getting too much for me and a few weeks ago I self harmed. It was nothing major and I got over it and tried my best to carry on as normal. It did start ringing bells for me though because I hadn't done anything like that for almost 6 months. Then last Wednesday I took an overdose. I ended up in hospital for 3 days on a Drip. When I was medically discharged I had to wait to see one of the psych team before I could leave. I'll be honest, I wanted to be admitted. I told him I couldnt face going home, that I don't trust myself or feel safe and my problems with my medication but he wouldn't listen to me. He was so patronising, throwing leaflets in my face and telling me my problems wouldn't go away if I came into hospital. Like I don't know that. I needed space from the chaos and maybe get started on a new medication. Instead I was left to go home without medication and in total feeling of despair. I've been withdrawing all weekend, I'm not feeling well at all. I'm dizzy, feel sick and very tearful.
My mum phoned my manager for me in time for my Thursday shift and my manager was angry and very rude to my mum. I've been in touch with her today and said I wouldn't be in next week but I did it by text and she said it wasn't good enough and I have to ring her tomorrow. I don't want to talk to her, I'm scared and I don't know what to do. I don't think I ever want to go back but it would cripple me financially, I'll only get ssp and it's not enough as I have a 12 year old to care for. I was on ESA before going into this job, I was feeling better so I gave up all that security and went into work giving up all my benefits and now I'm wondering weather that was the right thing to do and I don't know if it would be possible to go back on it.
I'm completely at a loss of what to do with my life right now, I'm very depressed. It's strange, I have an amazing boyfriend, great friends and family and yet I feel so lonely. I feel so alone in this world and feel no one is actually listening to me and understanding how I'm feeling or what I'm going through in my mind.
Im at a loss guys, I really am :weep:
Kez x
Really need someone to talk too, I can't stop crying. I hope this post isn't to long, I just need something, not sure what, maybe I'm just looking for support and virtual hugs. 6 months ago i started on venlafaxine after taking a near fatal overdose. I guess they were OK at first but the last few weeks I've noticed that I've been suffering with symptoms very similar to that of withdrawals. I've never forgotten to take a pill though. I've also noticed that I've been over agitated and my disturbing thoughts have been worsening. My sleeping has got bad because my body keeps having spasms when I need to sleep. Sometimes it's just my legs Jerking but other times it can be my whole body. I had also been crying a lot and getting upset over the smallest thing. I'd decided that I needed to come off these Meds.
Anyway things have been going bad at work, I only work part time in a kitchen, just two staff, me and my manager. My manager shouts at me in front of customers and gives me a hard time if I'm sick. She has no sympathy or understanding of my illness and just thinks I'm being stupid. Yet she can go off sick no problem. I also feel like I always get the blame for things going wrong, I feel small at work and insignificant so I feel I deserve no better. My finances have been going bad too. Working tax credits decided to take £80 a week off me, when my wages go in its mostly taken by bills so there isn't a lot left, so basically I'm living off £9 a week of working tax credits. Im really struggling, and I'm wondering how I'm going to cope at Christmas.
I have a boyfriend, hes amazing and I love him and he loves me but I'm so frightened of upsetting him that I don't open up to him or tell him what's wrong. Every day I'm scared I'm going to lose him.
My eldest son is 19 and he is basically living in my living room with his girlfriend. She has mental health issues and my son told me the other day that he was going to be a dad but she lost the baby. They are arguing a lot and he loses his temper and punches things in my house and shouts and swears. I always end up crying because I can't stand it and the stress is too much for me.
It was all getting too much for me and a few weeks ago I self harmed. It was nothing major and I got over it and tried my best to carry on as normal. It did start ringing bells for me though because I hadn't done anything like that for almost 6 months. Then last Wednesday I took an overdose. I ended up in hospital for 3 days on a Drip. When I was medically discharged I had to wait to see one of the psych team before I could leave. I'll be honest, I wanted to be admitted. I told him I couldnt face going home, that I don't trust myself or feel safe and my problems with my medication but he wouldn't listen to me. He was so patronising, throwing leaflets in my face and telling me my problems wouldn't go away if I came into hospital. Like I don't know that. I needed space from the chaos and maybe get started on a new medication. Instead I was left to go home without medication and in total feeling of despair. I've been withdrawing all weekend, I'm not feeling well at all. I'm dizzy, feel sick and very tearful.
My mum phoned my manager for me in time for my Thursday shift and my manager was angry and very rude to my mum. I've been in touch with her today and said I wouldn't be in next week but I did it by text and she said it wasn't good enough and I have to ring her tomorrow. I don't want to talk to her, I'm scared and I don't know what to do. I don't think I ever want to go back but it would cripple me financially, I'll only get ssp and it's not enough as I have a 12 year old to care for. I was on ESA before going into this job, I was feeling better so I gave up all that security and went into work giving up all my benefits and now I'm wondering weather that was the right thing to do and I don't know if it would be possible to go back on it.
I'm completely at a loss of what to do with my life right now, I'm very depressed. It's strange, I have an amazing boyfriend, great friends and family and yet I feel so lonely. I feel so alone in this world and feel no one is actually listening to me and understanding how I'm feeling or what I'm going through in my mind.
Im at a loss guys, I really am :weep:
Kez x