Happy Birthday SLA [Archive]

nomorepanic

31-01-17, 00:00

**** Happy Birthday ****

1 member is celebrating their birthday on 31-01-17:

-SLA (http://www.nomorepanic.co.uk/member.php?u=76355) (Age: hidden or unknown)

Happy Birthday from all of the No More Panic admins and chat room moderators.

Catherine S

31-01-17, 00:02

Happy Birthday SLA :D hope you have a good day.

ISB x x

Carnation

31-01-17, 00:10

:birthday1:Have a great day SLA :)

Clydesdale Epona

31-01-17, 01:14

Happy birthday SLA! :flowers:
hope you have a great day x

MyNameIsTerry

31-01-17, 05:54

Have a great birthday, SLA. I hope you get some time with your daughters as from seeing how proud you are of them, I bet that would be the best pressie.

:birthday1::birthday::birthday1::birthday:

(Someone one starred this thread so I've five starred it. I would appreciate everyone doing the same to get the rating back up, or hopefully someone made a mistake and will correct their error. No one should experience that let alone on a well meaning thread! )

celticlass62

31-01-17, 07:23

Happy Birthday Sla
I Hope you have a lovely day and get spoiled
lots of love to you
celticlass xxx :hugs::hugs:

NoraB

31-01-17, 08:00

Many Happy Returns to you Sir!

Hope you have a wonderful (and peaceful) day.:yesyes:

pulisa

31-01-17, 08:28

Happy Birthday SLA and I hope you have a special day!

SLA

31-01-17, 08:58

Oh wow! Thank you so much everyone. :D

Nobody at work has remembered, so I am sitting here quietly drinking tea, and listening to some Bowie.

This has cheered me right up, and I appreciate your kind words!

I really love this site. It's been such an integral part of me understanding anxiety/depression/OCD, and I wouldn't be the man I am today without the support of others.

Thank you so much.

KeeKee

31-01-17, 10:06

Happy Birthday SLA. I hope you have a good day.

Kuatir

31-01-17, 10:43

Happy birthday, J

Are you stocked up on cider for the evening? :)

SLA

31-01-17, 11:14

Cheers mate!

Yes, I do have a few cans in the fridge. Will celebrate tonight, then I think I need to take it easy in February. :D

Carrie8484

31-01-17, 12:23

Happy Birthday Jason!!!!
Hope you have a good day despite being at work.
Are you seeing your girls tonight?
I'm sure you'll be getting birthday cuddles the you see them xx

aprilmoon

31-01-17, 12:37

Happy birthday Jason
Enjoy your day
Best wishes ☺

SLA

31-01-17, 12:53

Thank you Carrie and April!

Yes, I am lucky to be seeing my girls this evening.

I cannot wait. I might even let them stay up an extra 30 minutes! :D

Colicab85

31-01-17, 15:32

Happy Birthday mate!!!

Hope you have a good day!

almamatters

31-01-17, 16:09

Have a Lovely Day :birthday::birthday1::birthday::birthday1:

SLA

31-01-17, 18:28

Thank you Colica and Alma.

This thread was made all the more sweet by the fact that my Ex couldn't even bring herself to say Happy Birthday too me, and that she didnt get the girls a card to give to me, let alone a present.

So glad I am out of that relationship... :D

Catherine S

31-01-17, 18:38

Aw, that's sad. But your girls won't be little forever, and there will come a time when they can make their own choices. Hang on in there SLA, the years go by very quickly believe me.

Enjoy your evening xx

KeeKee

31-01-17, 19:58

I think it's appalling she couldn't even get you a card from them. Never mind, you have their company and I'm sure you'll have/had a lovely night.

pulisa

31-01-17, 20:58

I'm glad you're seeing your girls this evening-forget your ex's pettiness? They will just be pleased to be sharing their Dad's birthday with him.

Carrie8484

31-01-17, 21:15

UGH at your ex Jason, but -whether she likes it or not - the girls are the best gift she could have given you, and your bond with them is utterly unbreakable.
In a few very short years they will be making decisions and deciding for themselves and you will have birthday cards from them , even if they are hand made :) xx

Magic

31-01-17, 21:45

Sorry, just got in. Hope you enjoyed your Birthday SLA :hugs:xx

SLA

31-01-17, 22:04

Thank you so much Carrie, pulisa and Magic.

Yes, I have enjoyed my time with them, but it did make me feel quite sad that she couldn't make the effort on their behalf.

Its not about her, and its not about me. It is about them being able to share and be a part of the celebration.

I dont want them growing up feeling like birthdays arent an important thing.

Anyway... *sigh*

I'm getting that feeling where I want to leave the country again. :D

---------- Post added at 22:04 ---------- Previous post was at 21:55 ----------

..and thank you KeeKee and ISB too.

You guys have really added to the spring in my step today.

xxxxxxxxxxx

pulisa

01-02-17, 08:27

Believe me, your daughters will always know that birthdays are important. Your ex should have got something for them to give you but she didn't for whatever reason..Let's not make any excuses for her-it's very poor.

I'm sure you won't do the same thing when it's her birthday and your girls will learn from your example. Don't leave the country!!You're a Very Important Dad no matter how many presents/cards you do or don't get!

Lucinda07

01-02-17, 09:02

SLA
I saw your vlog when you purchased & wrapped presents for your ex's birthday. What a shame that you didn't even receive a card for yours. Very poor.