Innerpeaceseeker
27-02-17, 07:22
I didn't expect to meet another guy so soon after my break up. After this break up, I can't even enjoy dating because I over analyze EVERYTHING :weep: I'm not afraid of being alone nor do I think I'm ugly/stupid etc. My paranoia goes straight to being abandoned after I get completely invested. My biggest flaw is that I dwell and in this case it happens to be my love life, I spend hours consumed by this. I am already over analyzing everything the guy is doing, even though its only been a week since I met him. The feeling of cut and run is so strong.
The funny thing is, my recent break up isn't my 1st. My 1st one was bad, but I went in to dating lighthearted. The relationship ended on bad terms, I deeply loved the guy, but we were plain incompatible. W/this ex, he lost the connection to me, w/drew from me and ended up breaking up w/me using very lame cliche break up lines (its me, not you etc). I'm afraid of abandonment yet again, my recent ex wanted the relationship and now I don't even know how much of it was real and at what point was he just going through the motions. Will seeing a therapist help?
The funny thing is, my recent break up isn't my 1st. My 1st one was bad, but I went in to dating lighthearted. The relationship ended on bad terms, I deeply loved the guy, but we were plain incompatible. W/this ex, he lost the connection to me, w/drew from me and ended up breaking up w/me using very lame cliche break up lines (its me, not you etc). I'm afraid of abandonment yet again, my recent ex wanted the relationship and now I don't even know how much of it was real and at what point was he just going through the motions. Will seeing a therapist help?