.Poppy.
20-04-17, 16:43
This is probably more of a rant thread than anything else, I'm just super overwhelmed at the moment and am struggling to deal.
I currently work full time and I live at home right now until I move out in August. I'm trying to save as much as I can but am freaking out about expenses - I make okay money considering I'm just starting out but it could be better. I'll be going to grad school in the fall (thankfully some of my classes are paid for as I work at a university), so I have to figure out how to pay for some of my classes, rent, utilities, care for two of my pets (one of which is kind of high-needs), and whatever else I need to buy/pay for.
My high-maintenance dog has to go to a specialist next week to see about medications. He's very anxious/reactive and is currently on meds but one of them makes him really groggy and I want to take him off/try something else. I also want to enroll him in more training classes - which of course is expensive.
I got into the grad program I really wanted - college student development - but am concerned that this will somehow just be a dead end or not worth it.
I'm considering taking on a second job to help cover some things I need and pay off the money I owe in previous student loans (thankfully it's only about $14,000). But, I'm ashamed at the idea of needing a second job and I'm trying to find something that can work around my schedule. I feel like the fact that I didn't get a better job out of college in the first place is all my fault.
On that topic, I'm very concerned about just not having enough time for work, more work, class(es), homework, pets, etc.
One of my cats died yesterday and I'm still really upset about that but am also pretty numb. He was old, but I tried out a new flea/tick treatment on him and somehow have managed to convince myself that is what killed him and it was all my fault. Also, since my other cat and my dog use the same treatment, I'm afraid I'm going to kill them as well.
I am so, so tired. I think I'm sleeping fine but I'm just exhausted during the day.
I can't shut my brain off. Part of me says, "this is just life" but I don't know how people do it. Every time I think of being in debt or trying to survive financially I can't breathe.
I currently work full time and I live at home right now until I move out in August. I'm trying to save as much as I can but am freaking out about expenses - I make okay money considering I'm just starting out but it could be better. I'll be going to grad school in the fall (thankfully some of my classes are paid for as I work at a university), so I have to figure out how to pay for some of my classes, rent, utilities, care for two of my pets (one of which is kind of high-needs), and whatever else I need to buy/pay for.
My high-maintenance dog has to go to a specialist next week to see about medications. He's very anxious/reactive and is currently on meds but one of them makes him really groggy and I want to take him off/try something else. I also want to enroll him in more training classes - which of course is expensive.
I got into the grad program I really wanted - college student development - but am concerned that this will somehow just be a dead end or not worth it.
I'm considering taking on a second job to help cover some things I need and pay off the money I owe in previous student loans (thankfully it's only about $14,000). But, I'm ashamed at the idea of needing a second job and I'm trying to find something that can work around my schedule. I feel like the fact that I didn't get a better job out of college in the first place is all my fault.
On that topic, I'm very concerned about just not having enough time for work, more work, class(es), homework, pets, etc.
One of my cats died yesterday and I'm still really upset about that but am also pretty numb. He was old, but I tried out a new flea/tick treatment on him and somehow have managed to convince myself that is what killed him and it was all my fault. Also, since my other cat and my dog use the same treatment, I'm afraid I'm going to kill them as well.
I am so, so tired. I think I'm sleeping fine but I'm just exhausted during the day.
I can't shut my brain off. Part of me says, "this is just life" but I don't know how people do it. Every time I think of being in debt or trying to survive financially I can't breathe.