GingerFish
20-05-17, 10:18
Hey guys, I am getting married in just over 7 weeks and I know its natural for everyone to feel a bit of nerves about their wedding day but to those like ourselves who already have anxiety issues, it can be even more tough.
I am just looking for tips and advice on what everyone else did on their day to keep their nerves at bay. Did you actually feel calm on the day? Its not the wedding itself or the marriage that worries me, its little things about the wedding day such as talking in front of everyone. I can talk in front of lots of people if I can make up what I say but having to say 'official' things or things off a sheet of paper - I stumble up my words and my stutter comes back, I am worried that gatecrashing guests may show up, worried people wont have a good time, even worried I might even die before it - typical anxiety disorder thoughts :weep:
I am just looking for tips and advice on what everyone else did on their day to keep their nerves at bay. Did you actually feel calm on the day? Its not the wedding itself or the marriage that worries me, its little things about the wedding day such as talking in front of everyone. I can talk in front of lots of people if I can make up what I say but having to say 'official' things or things off a sheet of paper - I stumble up my words and my stutter comes back, I am worried that gatecrashing guests may show up, worried people wont have a good time, even worried I might even die before it - typical anxiety disorder thoughts :weep: