lgm55
10-06-17, 00:38
Hi all , really need to offload and learn where the hell we go , we are in a relationship for 6 years have two very good kids at school over achieving but sometimes testing at home . I m the stepdad and not the biological father but doing a good job in my view.
My partner M has been to the docs and has tightening chest pains , often thinks she is having a heart attack but then calms down and generally now doesn't like people , she not go for any medication or counselling for us as she states she has skills having a degree in Councillor and physcology.
This leads to be a disadvantage and she is fiery i'm the calm one but i dont say anything and she is blowing up on me , i have been told im the best in the world on a practical level couldnt do anymore in the house and the kids , but i dont love her as we are not intimate her words not mine and y actions speak for themselves and nothing will ever change.
just tonight we have had another bust up over our kids football presentation and i offered my services as a coach now wish i hadnt as i knew it would end up here. she has now told me she wont go after i have spent the last hour painting her nails.
im stuck feel crap and totally lost as i say we need to see someone she doesnt we are fighting point scoring right now im struggling to even feel the desire to be loving in that way.
so shes just told me she is done and headed on her phone gone to bed and said i can stay down here and we can have some time to have a break and good sleep , im ehausted and suffer with cluster headaches and they are back this week and snore which she could kill me sometimes.
please help feel free to ask any questions so i can outline anymore and will write no sides as i need simple help
Thanks
LGM
My partner M has been to the docs and has tightening chest pains , often thinks she is having a heart attack but then calms down and generally now doesn't like people , she not go for any medication or counselling for us as she states she has skills having a degree in Councillor and physcology.
This leads to be a disadvantage and she is fiery i'm the calm one but i dont say anything and she is blowing up on me , i have been told im the best in the world on a practical level couldnt do anymore in the house and the kids , but i dont love her as we are not intimate her words not mine and y actions speak for themselves and nothing will ever change.
just tonight we have had another bust up over our kids football presentation and i offered my services as a coach now wish i hadnt as i knew it would end up here. she has now told me she wont go after i have spent the last hour painting her nails.
im stuck feel crap and totally lost as i say we need to see someone she doesnt we are fighting point scoring right now im struggling to even feel the desire to be loving in that way.
so shes just told me she is done and headed on her phone gone to bed and said i can stay down here and we can have some time to have a break and good sleep , im ehausted and suffer with cluster headaches and they are back this week and snore which she could kill me sometimes.
please help feel free to ask any questions so i can outline anymore and will write no sides as i need simple help
Thanks
LGM