sadtimes
05-07-17, 14:53
I know this has nothing to do with OCD but I don't know where else to ask about this...
As long as I can remember I've always spoken horribly to my dad. There are times where we get along but there are times when I just can't stand him. I don't know why I don't like him, but sometimes his very presence in a room angers me. I would never speak to my mum the way I speak to him and sometimes I feel terrible about it.
I tend to just avoid him because I don't like how I speak to him. He's also a very angry man, and tends to shout a lot and a lot of my memories of him are of him shouting at me and my brother (it's kind of a family joke that our memories only seem to be him shouting)
But he does many many good things for me, like buys me food and drives me places. I love him very much and I know that one day I will regret it so much that I didn't treat him nicer.
I genuinely don't know where it came from and why I hold so much hostility towards him. I'm almost 21 and I thought i'd grow out of it by now.
Why do I act like this and what can I do to resolve it?
As long as I can remember I've always spoken horribly to my dad. There are times where we get along but there are times when I just can't stand him. I don't know why I don't like him, but sometimes his very presence in a room angers me. I would never speak to my mum the way I speak to him and sometimes I feel terrible about it.
I tend to just avoid him because I don't like how I speak to him. He's also a very angry man, and tends to shout a lot and a lot of my memories of him are of him shouting at me and my brother (it's kind of a family joke that our memories only seem to be him shouting)
But he does many many good things for me, like buys me food and drives me places. I love him very much and I know that one day I will regret it so much that I didn't treat him nicer.
I genuinely don't know where it came from and why I hold so much hostility towards him. I'm almost 21 and I thought i'd grow out of it by now.
Why do I act like this and what can I do to resolve it?