Vladimir
17-07-17, 02:25
My name is Vladimir and I am originally from Russia.
I was thinking that I am alone with this problem, but when started to search found that many people have something similar.
5 years ago I moved to a new place, all was great until new neighbor came to live in the apartments across mine, he is very noise loud speaking and keeps his door open all the time, also sometimes he listen to his music until 2am very loud. I complaint to management company, but he doesn't care about anything. He is over 65 and likes to drink.
I noticed that I am experience anxiety all the time when I hear his loud speeches and loud music, I understand that something wrong with me, because my reaction to this is not normal and over the top. When he is not listening to any music or doesn't produce any noise, I am listening to any noise and waiting when again he does this, than when he does this again my adrenalin getting so high.
Now I am started to get anxiety and fear with adrenalin from all noises that produced by all neighbors, that is freaking crazy. Alcohol used to treat it well, but I stopped because was afraid to become alcoholic.
In social life absolutely no problems, very communicable with people.
Basically my anxiety happens only when I am at home, on any noises from my neighbors, its drives me nuts for 5 years, now its more because I have stopped drinking any alcohol, used to help, but its not the way out.
Can you please advise something to me, maybe some of you had something the same and got out from this hell.
I am sorry fro my English.
I was thinking that I am alone with this problem, but when started to search found that many people have something similar.
5 years ago I moved to a new place, all was great until new neighbor came to live in the apartments across mine, he is very noise loud speaking and keeps his door open all the time, also sometimes he listen to his music until 2am very loud. I complaint to management company, but he doesn't care about anything. He is over 65 and likes to drink.
I noticed that I am experience anxiety all the time when I hear his loud speeches and loud music, I understand that something wrong with me, because my reaction to this is not normal and over the top. When he is not listening to any music or doesn't produce any noise, I am listening to any noise and waiting when again he does this, than when he does this again my adrenalin getting so high.
Now I am started to get anxiety and fear with adrenalin from all noises that produced by all neighbors, that is freaking crazy. Alcohol used to treat it well, but I stopped because was afraid to become alcoholic.
In social life absolutely no problems, very communicable with people.
Basically my anxiety happens only when I am at home, on any noises from my neighbors, its drives me nuts for 5 years, now its more because I have stopped drinking any alcohol, used to help, but its not the way out.
Can you please advise something to me, maybe some of you had something the same and got out from this hell.
I am sorry fro my English.