Insomniac
15-05-07, 19:05
Maybe red will cheer me up?
Well I was lying in bed this morning trying to persuade myself to get up and I thought how often I have to struggle. I have a couple of really black days each month (with PMS). But I do find it hard and I feel I want to stay in bed and stay asleep then I don't have to face reality.
I know that's not the way and realistically I am winning because although its there I am not letting it beat me. The same as the anxiety. Its there but I don't let it take over.
Someone said to me at the weekend that whenever he sees me I am smiling. Which in some ways I find quite ironic considering how I really feel. I'm depressed and suffering with anxiety, on meds etc. Yet its one of those illnesses that people don't see. I have got used to telling people about it. Though I am still choosy who I tell. But his comment got me thinking...
But sometimes.... you know.... Just sometimes I wonder why I have to struggle like this. Will it always be like this? Why can't the depression go away. God knows I've had it long enough. Maybe its just like that. The illness is always there, we just manage better at some times than others.
Daryl (hubby) is lovely. He is supportive with both anxiety and depression. Though sometimes we both get frustrated when he tries to cheer me up. He's an optimistic dreamer by nature, and says my cup is half empty while his is half full.
We've had serious financial difficulty and just managed to avoid being given an order to vacate our home - we now have housing benefit to help with our rent. So he says things are looking up. I sasy I know but that doesn't change the fact that my health is still suffering because of the situation so far. Its been like this (financially) for over a year now, and it takes a while i suppose for a body/mind to get over the stress and effects of stress for that time. My work is fine and apart from anxiety etc, we are healthy & happy. I'm coping quite well with the anxiety most of the time, which again builds my confidence each time.
So why the blackness?
Sorry this is so long.
Well I was lying in bed this morning trying to persuade myself to get up and I thought how often I have to struggle. I have a couple of really black days each month (with PMS). But I do find it hard and I feel I want to stay in bed and stay asleep then I don't have to face reality.
I know that's not the way and realistically I am winning because although its there I am not letting it beat me. The same as the anxiety. Its there but I don't let it take over.
Someone said to me at the weekend that whenever he sees me I am smiling. Which in some ways I find quite ironic considering how I really feel. I'm depressed and suffering with anxiety, on meds etc. Yet its one of those illnesses that people don't see. I have got used to telling people about it. Though I am still choosy who I tell. But his comment got me thinking...
But sometimes.... you know.... Just sometimes I wonder why I have to struggle like this. Will it always be like this? Why can't the depression go away. God knows I've had it long enough. Maybe its just like that. The illness is always there, we just manage better at some times than others.
Daryl (hubby) is lovely. He is supportive with both anxiety and depression. Though sometimes we both get frustrated when he tries to cheer me up. He's an optimistic dreamer by nature, and says my cup is half empty while his is half full.
We've had serious financial difficulty and just managed to avoid being given an order to vacate our home - we now have housing benefit to help with our rent. So he says things are looking up. I sasy I know but that doesn't change the fact that my health is still suffering because of the situation so far. Its been like this (financially) for over a year now, and it takes a while i suppose for a body/mind to get over the stress and effects of stress for that time. My work is fine and apart from anxiety etc, we are healthy & happy. I'm coping quite well with the anxiety most of the time, which again builds my confidence each time.
So why the blackness?
Sorry this is so long.