inkblackc
14-08-17, 00:55
Heads up everybody - there's some really strong, specific sexual talk here , so please be advised.
I could really use some advice here --
I've had OCD since I was about 14 or 15 years old. I've had most variations of OCD that you can imagine, from contamination fears to a religious obsessions. Mostly though, my OCD focuses on sexual obsessions. For example, I've had severe POCD symptoms off and on for many years. I also feel the compulsive need to confess every sexual "mistake" or perceived mistake I've committed over the years.
This constant confessing actually ruined a previous relationship that I was in. I'm in a relationship right now with a wonderful woman. However, this fear – this constant feeling like I need to confess everything is starting to rear its ugly head again. Sometimes these confessions go back to things that I did as many as 15 years ago. Sometimes they are more recent things.
I watched porn for a long time in my life, but I gave that up when I started dating my girlfriend. I didn't like the feeling that I was cheating. I don't even really like masturbating on my own because I have some strange guilt about it. I don't know why exactly.
For whatever reason, I have sometimes felt a fetishy-type feeling towards being filmed during sex. I've never made a sex tape with anyone or anything like that, but I have for whatever reason, masturbated while recording myself with my camera phone. I know it sounds super weird. I never intended on anyone else seeing it and deleted it afterwards, but there was something about it that was a turn on. Again, I never intended to keep the video or show it to anyone. I deleted it right away. It was just some weird quirk that I was trying out.
This happened sometime last year I think. I haven't done it since, but I'm racked with guilt - feeling like I need to tell my girlfriend I did this. To sort of apologize or confess or something. Is this a legitimate feeling or just an OCD compulsion? Any advice would be much appreciated.
I could really use some advice here --
I've had OCD since I was about 14 or 15 years old. I've had most variations of OCD that you can imagine, from contamination fears to a religious obsessions. Mostly though, my OCD focuses on sexual obsessions. For example, I've had severe POCD symptoms off and on for many years. I also feel the compulsive need to confess every sexual "mistake" or perceived mistake I've committed over the years.
This constant confessing actually ruined a previous relationship that I was in. I'm in a relationship right now with a wonderful woman. However, this fear – this constant feeling like I need to confess everything is starting to rear its ugly head again. Sometimes these confessions go back to things that I did as many as 15 years ago. Sometimes they are more recent things.
I watched porn for a long time in my life, but I gave that up when I started dating my girlfriend. I didn't like the feeling that I was cheating. I don't even really like masturbating on my own because I have some strange guilt about it. I don't know why exactly.
For whatever reason, I have sometimes felt a fetishy-type feeling towards being filmed during sex. I've never made a sex tape with anyone or anything like that, but I have for whatever reason, masturbated while recording myself with my camera phone. I know it sounds super weird. I never intended on anyone else seeing it and deleted it afterwards, but there was something about it that was a turn on. Again, I never intended to keep the video or show it to anyone. I deleted it right away. It was just some weird quirk that I was trying out.
This happened sometime last year I think. I haven't done it since, but I'm racked with guilt - feeling like I need to tell my girlfriend I did this. To sort of apologize or confess or something. Is this a legitimate feeling or just an OCD compulsion? Any advice would be much appreciated.