making decisions

[guest]

Hello,

I have been suffering from lack of confidence and anxiety and i have always had the worst time making decisions,getting more and more anxious. At the moment i have a big decision to make on wether to take a job or return to education. I seem to make matters worse by asking my friends for advice and getting several different answers.
I also get worked up over making small decisions such as when i'm shopping. I always end up doing nothing because i'm scared it's the wrong decision,which i can't do with my current problem as i have to decide by next week,which is making my anxiety worse.

Hope you can offer some advice please.

Jane

[Lindalou64]

maybe you should write down the pros and cons and that will tell you more what you should do, even for shoppin make a list and only stick to that...might help..wish ya the best....Linda