View Full Version : Terrified ive caught hiv
BizzyLizzy
06-01-18, 19:23
Please dont flame me I know how stupid I was. I had a ons last night, he did wear a condom, however in the drunkedness and moment I took it off 😱 he didnt cum inside me , he said he is clean, which I know anyone.can.say I feel so terrible, ive been in bed all day having panic attacks, will b hard to.get to a clinic now as tomorow is sunday and im working again monday , im so stupid, I hate myself :weep:
Just think how many times a day people have unprotected sex and one night stands around the globe....the chances of you catching HIV are very very slim
BizzyLizzy
06-01-18, 19:32
Omg thank you so much for your reply, I feel so lonely ans vulnerable today, he was a nice guy,he has txted me today and when I said I was really worried, he said dont be im clean
Potter is right and you could have pages of replies telling you the same thing and while it may dampen the flames a bit it can't put out the fire completely.
I get you're in a panic and it seems pretty grim but facts and statistics don't lie. Worst possible case is you get tested, get your clear result and learn a lesson to take to heart.
Feel better soon.
Positive thoughts
BizzyLizzy
06-01-18, 19:36
Thank you, I read I cant get tested for 3 months ?
From what I understand, you can go in a month. If it were a risky situation then repeat at 3 months.
BUT... BIG BUT.... from what you wrote and the fact you're in communication with him indicates he's not just some off the street heroin junkie skeevy high risk person ;) Think about this for a moment. This guy whom you deem a "nice guy", sent you a text to say hi and is reassuring you about your fear. If he wasn't a "nice guy", you would be ghosted :winks: So how, based on the reality, would this even be a risky situation?
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BizzyLizzy
06-01-18, 19:59
Thankyou so much, yes he iswas lovely, he told me I left my jacket there so I am collecting it next week. Thing is he is origionally from africa and hiv over there is so high
Thing is he is origionally from africa �� and hiv over there is so high
Ok then! :lac: My family is originally from Russia. It doesn't mean they tried to undermine the elections :rolleyes:
Seriously, let's leave it at that shall we? :)
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BizzyLizzy
06-01-18, 20:33
Thank you I feel so much calmer x
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