arteight
09-01-18, 12:19
Hi everyone,
I am a woman in my mid 20s who is also a virgin with no experience of dating (this is a choice I have made for non religious reasons).
I consider myself romantically attracted to real life men but I dont really form sexual attraction to anyone outside of my fantasies. In contrast, I feel no romantic or sexual attraction to real life women at all.
In the past a few times (maybe 1-3 times) I had active (meaning I was awake) romantic fantasies of being with celebrity women (actress and an athlete) and imagined being in a dating relationship (living together, kissing etc) and yet as soon as the fantasy was done I couldnt help but laugh at it because I have no real life attraction towards these women but I have been watching lesbian movies and maybe it got me curious at to what it would be like.
I was turned on by the romantic fantasy but for whatever reason it doesnt crossover to any real life desire.
My question is does actively fantasizing about being with these celebrity women mean that I am attracted to them? And if so how come in real life I feel no desire for them romantically or sexually?
Pls if anyone can answer this one question as it been really hard working the complex situation out on my own as I have no knowledge on sexuality and I also have learning difficulties which mean that I can only comprehend basic Yes/No type of information. I tried reading stuff online and it only add to my confusion.
I am a woman in my mid 20s who is also a virgin with no experience of dating (this is a choice I have made for non religious reasons).
I consider myself romantically attracted to real life men but I dont really form sexual attraction to anyone outside of my fantasies. In contrast, I feel no romantic or sexual attraction to real life women at all.
In the past a few times (maybe 1-3 times) I had active (meaning I was awake) romantic fantasies of being with celebrity women (actress and an athlete) and imagined being in a dating relationship (living together, kissing etc) and yet as soon as the fantasy was done I couldnt help but laugh at it because I have no real life attraction towards these women but I have been watching lesbian movies and maybe it got me curious at to what it would be like.
I was turned on by the romantic fantasy but for whatever reason it doesnt crossover to any real life desire.
My question is does actively fantasizing about being with these celebrity women mean that I am attracted to them? And if so how come in real life I feel no desire for them romantically or sexually?
Pls if anyone can answer this one question as it been really hard working the complex situation out on my own as I have no knowledge on sexuality and I also have learning difficulties which mean that I can only comprehend basic Yes/No type of information. I tried reading stuff online and it only add to my confusion.