BrokenGirl
20-02-18, 22:46
I had a job interview last Wednesday and since then it's been on my mind. Sometimes I've been positive about it and other times negative. But while all this was going on my HA has taken a back seat.
I've heard people say that distraction is a great way to help cope with HA and the last few days have proved it for me.
I think it made me realise that even if i don't get this job that there is life outside HA. HA is a bubble that you get trapped inside and sometimes it just feels impossible to get outside the bubble - but it is possible.
And I got great news today - I got the job. It was a job I really wanted and all day today I felt happiness, an emotion I haven't felt for a long long time.
So I guess I'm just trying to say that even though I know I'm not cured of HA, or anywhere near it, having other things going on in your life certainty helps and trying to focus on those things can take the focus away from HA.
I don't know how long this will last for me but it is definitely a step in the right direction.
Distraction people, and focus on other things in your life that you are grateful for - things that are real and not made up or maybes (like HA is).
I've heard people say that distraction is a great way to help cope with HA and the last few days have proved it for me.
I think it made me realise that even if i don't get this job that there is life outside HA. HA is a bubble that you get trapped inside and sometimes it just feels impossible to get outside the bubble - but it is possible.
And I got great news today - I got the job. It was a job I really wanted and all day today I felt happiness, an emotion I haven't felt for a long long time.
So I guess I'm just trying to say that even though I know I'm not cured of HA, or anywhere near it, having other things going on in your life certainty helps and trying to focus on those things can take the focus away from HA.
I don't know how long this will last for me but it is definitely a step in the right direction.
Distraction people, and focus on other things in your life that you are grateful for - things that are real and not made up or maybes (like HA is).