PaulaRubyLove
07-07-07, 02:07
I'm not sure if I'm posting this in the right section (sorry if I'm not :( )
Anyway, I'm having a lot of trouble trusting someone I love very much. Thing is, I don't know how much of this is because of my anxiety disorder (probably made worse by people who have let me down in the past) and fears of losing the person, and how much is real instinct that maybe something bad is going on.
It's driving me, and him crazy, because I'm reading between the lines of every little thing he says, and constantly freaking out thinking something bad will happen to him. I'm amazed that he's stuck by me through all this, it's probably because he's had similar problems (in the past, he says) and understands.
But I want to be happy and have good relationships. Any ideas on how to deal with this?
Anyway, I'm having a lot of trouble trusting someone I love very much. Thing is, I don't know how much of this is because of my anxiety disorder (probably made worse by people who have let me down in the past) and fears of losing the person, and how much is real instinct that maybe something bad is going on.
It's driving me, and him crazy, because I'm reading between the lines of every little thing he says, and constantly freaking out thinking something bad will happen to him. I'm amazed that he's stuck by me through all this, it's probably because he's had similar problems (in the past, he says) and understands.
But I want to be happy and have good relationships. Any ideas on how to deal with this?