am i sick or anxious

[jacob]

I am 23 years old, and suffers terribly of general anxiaty on the 3rd year now. I was all going a little better, but then I had the flu, and ever since, I still wonder if i walk around with a small flu. Has anyone tried the same? I have never been sick in my life before my anxiaty, but now it seems that i´m always sick. Its terrible, and is keeping me from visiting friends and doing the things I love. I even make up excuses for not spending time with my girlfriend, (so she won´t leave me, if she sees what a weakling I am) I can´t even tell the difference between the real flu and my anxiaty. What am I suppose to do. Hope noone feels like I do at the moment.

[groovygranny]

Hello Jacob :welcome:to you!

You're having a rotten time by the sound of it - but you'll get plenty of help and support here.

First things first - you need to be honest with your girlfriend love.

I'm sure she'd rather know what's bothering you than have to hazard a guess? It might feel uncomfortable at first but honesty really is the best policy here.

Anxiety can lower your resistence to infection, so you are definitely not a weakling!

Glad you found us - and pleased to meet you!

:)

[Pink Princess]

hi jacob, welcome to the site, hope you find lots of info and support here and make many friends too. chat soon, take kare
love minnie xxxxxxxxxxx

[manmoor]

Hi Jacob,

A big warm welcome to you. xx

[Lindalou64]

hi jacob and welcome,
i feel the same i dont know if im really sick or is it the anxiety making me sick the only time i can really put a finger on it if i run a tempature........i know we all hate to have to make excuses one day tho this shall pass.i wish ya the best..Linda

[nomorepanic]

Jacob

Just wanted to welcome you aboard and lovely to see you here.

Hope we can be of some help.

[jacob]

Hey everybody. Thanks for your kind advises and welcomes., I didn´t know that it can actually lower my resistance. I am so glad that i have found this place, hope you will all feel better in a very short while, and that i can be of some kind of help to you guys/girls/ladys and gents.