Panic or justified?

[gunsnroses]

Hello all,

First of all I just want to say that this forum and talking is such a great help to me.

I am panicking at the moment, I have been having some relationship problems and last night my partner was drunk and said some very mean things.

At this point I dont know if I am unable to forgive because of my anxiety/depression or if this is something I should be concerned more about and end my relationship over...

Has anyone had any similar situations or words of advice?

[venusbluejeans]

Maybe talk things over with your partner when he/she is sober, They may not even remember they said the things (not that that makes it right) and when people are drunk they often say things that they don't mean..... things that deep down that they may have crossed their mind very briefly BUT would never actually say to you and not actually mean

talk things throught with them

[gunsnroses]

Thank you Em, I think this is the best option