Frankie23
31-07-07, 10:27
I was with my ex partner for 7 months but the past month he has been off with me, would leave me for days without a text etc etc which absolutely drove me crazy as well as hurt / confusion.
Last week i had it out with him over text i asked 'Are we ok', he said 'Dunno are we ok' so we continued to text and i decided enough is enough. Now i feel ive gave up on him to soon.
The problem is he has depressive episodes i.e he has been absolutely amazing the past 6 hence why i noticed a change in his behaviour. Normally i wouldnt give up to easily but heres the catch he loves his drugs on a night out he can take up to 10-15 ecstasy pills as well as smoking dope. 'he smokes it most nights'. I did feel i was winning a loosing battle, ive turned my life around. Although i didnt do that many drugs just a handful of times following the death of my mum i know that you have to want to give up to get better and I feel he would never do it. He complains he has depression but using mind altering drugs is going to cause that.
Suppose what answer I was looking for is whether I did right in just walking away? Its hurting me so much but in the long run i know ive probably saved myself further heartache. Im not eating that much, i had an anxiety attack this morning on the bus which resulted in the bus driver calling for an ambulance. Im just so messed up and see no light at the end of the tunnel. Ive changed for the better and I just need that extra push in the right direction I just dont know which way to go.
Last week i had it out with him over text i asked 'Are we ok', he said 'Dunno are we ok' so we continued to text and i decided enough is enough. Now i feel ive gave up on him to soon.
The problem is he has depressive episodes i.e he has been absolutely amazing the past 6 hence why i noticed a change in his behaviour. Normally i wouldnt give up to easily but heres the catch he loves his drugs on a night out he can take up to 10-15 ecstasy pills as well as smoking dope. 'he smokes it most nights'. I did feel i was winning a loosing battle, ive turned my life around. Although i didnt do that many drugs just a handful of times following the death of my mum i know that you have to want to give up to get better and I feel he would never do it. He complains he has depression but using mind altering drugs is going to cause that.
Suppose what answer I was looking for is whether I did right in just walking away? Its hurting me so much but in the long run i know ive probably saved myself further heartache. Im not eating that much, i had an anxiety attack this morning on the bus which resulted in the bus driver calling for an ambulance. Im just so messed up and see no light at the end of the tunnel. Ive changed for the better and I just need that extra push in the right direction I just dont know which way to go.