View Full Version : Please could i have a hug, just when i thought things where going well.10th Aug
honeybee3939
08-08-07, 17:56
Hi
I wondered if you kind people could give me a hug as im feeling so upset today.
I went to the doctors a few weeks ago to have a suspicious growth the size of a 50p piece checked out on my face which i thought was a freckle, but over the last couple of weeks it as grown and and changed in colour.and gone all scaly, a few people had commented over the last couple of weeks how they thought it had grown, so i went to the doctors today to have it checked, he had measured it on my first visit and today he measured it again, he said it had grown and changed colour and wanted to refer me as urgent to the hospital. so now i have to wait for a phone call for a appointment.
So as you can imagine i am so upset thinking the worst. why is life so cruel at times. just when you think you are getting back on with your life something else comes along to bring you down again.
Thankyou, i know i can always rely on NMP when im feeling down.
Hugs to you all too:hugs: :hugs:
Love
Andrea
xxxxx
Awww mate have loads of :hugs: :hugs: :hugs: :hugs: from me
Keep positive and you know where I am if you need me
Love
Trac xxxx
Oh Andrea big big hugs for you matey.
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I've got my fingers crossed and you in my thoughts.
Take care,
Mike x
aww, Andy
it's good to hear you have a good doctor and I hope that you soon get this sorted mate. :ohmy:
Sending you the warmest biggest hugs I can find
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Take Care mate - you have my number
Ray xxx
Andi it's always best to get it checked out love (so well done for being so sensible) - at our age we do get funny lumps bumps and automobiles don't we. I had one on the back of my leg that was really black and scared me, so the doctor removed it and it was fine.
Now even if it is something scary (and you don't know at all that it is) they will have got it early and can sort it out - ok sweetheart.:hugs:
Love Piglet :flowers:
:hugs: :hugs: :hugs: Andrea
Luv Kaz x x x
Oh hunny
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Try not to worry. I know it is easier said than done.
Happyone
xx
groovygranny
08-08-07, 21:55
Thinking of you Andrea..........
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and sending lots of hugs and loads of love
XXX XXX XXX
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nomorepanic
08-08-07, 22:09
Andrea
Big hugs to you mate - love you loads as you know and I hope all is ok. Will text you ok?
xxxxx
honeybee3939
08-08-07, 22:55
Aww thanks a lot folks!:hugs:
Your hugs have helped, im trying not to worry but its hard, im sure everything will work out fine, will keep you posted. thankyou:flowers:
Love to you all:hugs: :hugs:
Andrea
xxxxx
big hugs andrea
love debera:hugs: :hugs: :hugs: :hugs: :hugs: :hugs:
Lots of hugs to you Andrea :hugs: :hugs: :hugs: :hugs: :hugs: :hugs:
love Ellen :flowers:
big hugs to you my love
i went through something like this in 2005
and i understand the worry and the
feeling of helplessness while you have to wait
sending you an ocean full of gentle love
to soothe your worry
love ade xxxxxx:flowers: :flowers: :flowers:
:hugs: Massive Hugs:hugs:for you
Love lindaxxx
eeyorelover
09-08-07, 14:47
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Thinking of ya Andrea :flowers:
xxx
Sandy
Andrea chick just to let you know im thinking of you and you can text or ring anytime i know too well what its like to worry.
You have done the right thing by going and you sound like you have a really nice doctor its best getting anything checked out just to be on the safe side.
Dont no how to do a piccy so i will just GIVE YOU ONE OF MY BIGGEST SQUEEZES hope you can feel it.
Keep your pecker up.
take care mate
bobs x x x:hugs: :hugs:
ANDREA :hugs: A BIG BELATED HUG FROM ME HUN :hugs: XXX
honeybee3939
10-08-07, 12:52
Thankyou all for your kind words and hugs.:hugs: :hugs:
you are all so kind:flowers:
Hugs
:hugs:
Andrea
xxxxx
Hope all is well honey
Thinking of you
:hugs: :hugs: :hugs: :yesyes: :yesyes:
(((BIG Hugs)))),thinking of you
Dave:flowers: xx
Best wishes Andrea. You have done the right thing and keeping fingers crossed for your results.
:hugs: Trev :hugs:
Another big hug from me hun :hugs: xxxxx
honeybee3939
11-08-07, 08:18
Thankyou for thinking of me ,Sam, Dave, Trev and Mandy :hugs:
Love
:hugs:
Andrea
xxxxx
honeybee3939
11-08-07, 09:36
Hi
Well i finally got my appointment and i have to go to the hospital this Tuesday at 2.45pm, so that was very quick!:ohmy: Not only do i have the worry of something awful growing i have also got the added stress of visiting a hospital, as hospitals as been one of my biggest fears. ohh i wish life wasnt so complicated.
I will let you know how things go, and thankyou all for your support.:hugs:
hugs and kisses
Andrea
xxxx
My special mate
Keep positive ok and don't you be thinking the worst or you will have me to answer too.
I am here if you need me ok, text me or ring me all you like on Tuesday to take your mind off the hospital visit.
Loads of :hugs:
Love
Trac xxx
groovygranny
11-08-07, 11:14
We shall all have to keep you supplied with hugs til Tuesday then Andrea!
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..................AND THEN YOU CAN HAVE SOME MORE !!
:flowers: XXX
Best to get it out the way Andi and then at least you haven't weeks to do the whole anticipatory anxiety thing.
Lets try and think of things to keep your mind off it as much as poss - you could do my old trick of Pips and imagine that lollipop lady stop sign as soon as you start thinking scary thoughts.:hugs:
Things are rarely as monstrous as our imagination hun.
Love Piglet :flowers:
huge hugs for you andrea
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prism
honeybee3939
11-08-07, 12:53
Thankyou Trace, GG, Piglet and Prism :hugs: :hugs:
Hugs to you all too !
Hubby is taking me to the coast this afternoon to visit my sister at her caravan, :) will hopefully be back for the quiz, hope you all have a great day !:hugs:
Hugs and kisses
:hugs:
Andrea
xxxxxx
margaret911
11-08-07, 18:17
Big hugs to you andrea, hope everything goes okay for you
love Mags xxxxx
Pink Princess
11-08-07, 21:39
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huggies from me hope your feeling bit better xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
love minnie xxxxxxxxxxxxx
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jodie xx
As Piglet says, the quicker the better as it gives less time for anticipation to build.
Very best wishes for the appointment. :hugs:
Cheers,Trev x
groovygranny
13-08-07, 11:13
Hi Andrea,
Monday's hug coming up!!......
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Shh, don't say anything...I pinched it from Nibs when he wasn't looking lol :noangel:!
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:flowers:
It's a good job I don't mind sharing. :winks:
Will be thinking of you tomorrow hun and I just know all will be ok. xxx
honeybee3939
13-08-07, 17:49
Thankyou all so much:hugs: :hugs:
Well tommorrow will soon be here, i will be glad when its over, i am very scared but still trying to be positive.:)
Hugs
:hugs:
Andrea
xxxx
You're doing all the right things Andrea and this time tomorrow it will all be over. :) I'll be thinking of you, you're a very brave person which will get you through this.
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Take care,
Mike x
groovygranny
14-08-07, 08:19
Hi Andrea,
Thinking of you for this afternoon xxx
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Hi Andrea,
((((((((((((((((big hugs))))))))))))))))))))
for today,
love anx xx
Best wishes for this afternoon,
love trev x
Thinkin of you hun.
Love Piglet :flowers:
Just wanted to send you some huggles and to let you know we will all be thinking of you andrea :hugs: :hugs: :hugs: :hugs: :hugs:
Brightest Angel Blessings
Mystics :flowers:
honeybee3939
14-08-07, 16:45
Aww thanks everyone ever so much for all your support.:hugs: :hugs: :hugs:
Its good news !!:yesyes: :yesyes:
I saw the consultant and he checked it out with a big lamp and said he cant see anything funny going off(not sure what he was looking for)but on the safe side he wants me back in a couple of weeks and have it removed by local anesepitic then he can send samples away to be checked. I think if he thought it was serious he wouldnt have left it another 2 weeks.:yesyes:
The consultant was very nice (rather young and dishy to be exact, andrea wishing she was 20years younger:winks: ) i have had a rotten morning with worry(thanks Trace and Nic for been there for me,and thankyou all for all your lovely messages you have sent me:hugs: hospitals are one of my worse fears, and to be honest i nearly lost it while sat in the waiting room(thanks Trace :winks: ), but i just got up and walked around, reading the leaflets etc and it went away, ohh why do they put posters all over the walls in hospital waiting rooms of awful things like pictures of skin cancer etc, thats sure to make peoples anxiety alot worse, it sure did me! i may discuss this the next time i go,why not have some nice pics of male models etc..:winks:
So all in all, its been quite a successful day, i have conquered yet another one of my fears, hospitals, and also the outlook for my funny looking growth is looking good!
Once again thankyou all so much for been there for me !!
Love ya all !:hugs:
Andrea
xxxxxx
Oh Andi that is good news - I popped in purely just to see how you got on and that is so good to hear. :hugs:
Love Piglet :flowers:
groovygranny
14-08-07, 17:00
Excellent news Andrea!
Thanks for sharing it with us!
We can all breathe out now lol !!
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Excellent news Andrea. So pleased for you and well done for doing it.
Trev xx
honeybee3939
14-08-07, 23:09
Thankyou ! Piglet, GG and Trev.:flowers: :flowers: :flowers: :flowers:
Hugs
:hugs:
Andrea
xxxxx
hi sweetie
been reading your posts but havent had time to reply (been arranging a pals funeral) im so pleased that its nothing to worry about (like we need a reason ha ha )
take good care
luv tracie xxx
Matey no need for the thanks, your my friend and I love ya loads, so of course I am here for you, just as you always are for me :hugs:
See I told you imaging all those doctors naked would take your mind off the waiting just a good job there were some young hunky ones other wise it could have made you more anxious lol
Lots oflove
Trac xx
cheeky monkey
15-08-07, 15:12
Hi
We are both thinking of you, hope all goes well.
sending you some hugs :hugs: :hugs: :hugs: :hugs:
take care
susie and leo05 (lea)
Honey honey! Youve already supported me so much in the few weeks Ive been on this amazing site........ my pleaseure to do what little I can in return...... As other members have said, youve done the right thing in getting it checked out, thats the main thing, when you get the all clear results you'll feel even better!!
big hugs of course..........
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A xx
Oh bless you, try to think positive even though it's hard.
Always here for you
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be thinking and wishing the best for you
Lindalou64
15-08-07, 18:50
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big hugs for ya andrea,you did well :yesyes: wish ya the best hun......linda xxxx:flowers: :flowers: :flowers:
honeybee3939
15-08-07, 20:47
Thankyou all:hugs: :hugs: :hugs: :hugs: :hugs:
Love
:hugs:
Andrea
xxxxx
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:yesyes: That was my face after reading your good news :yesyes:
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Take care,
Mike x
Andrea your news turned Mike yellow and made him lose his nose mate lol
Love
Trac xxx
honeybee3939
15-08-07, 21:13
Aww thanks Mike !:hugs:
Lol Trace, i hope i didnt make Mike loose is nose !!!! ohhhh myyyyy!!:hugs:
I promise i will get you another one Mike :winks:
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Love and hugs
:hugs: :hugs:
Andrea
xxxxx
Andrea no leave him without a nose, seeing as when I told him I had lost my brain one day he told me well it is easy to misplace something that small isnt it :lac: hehe
Love
Trac xxx
Can you sort that hairdo out too please Andrea?
HI ANDREA
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HT TO BE SCARED AND CONCERNED WITH WHATS HAPPENING, THE SOONER THEY GET IT CHECKED THE BETTER.
SENDING YOU BIG HUGS AND LOADS AND LOADS OF SUPPORT.
TAKE CARE OF YOU
LOVE NESS
XXXXXXXX
Oh Andrea :hugs: I am so so glad hun that everything is ok. :flowers: xxx
nomorepanic
17-08-07, 19:35
Andrea
Glad all is ok :yesyes: :yesyes:
Always here for you mate if you need to talk.
Did you get the other body parts replaced whilst you were there :winks: :winks:
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Hey hunny
I am so glad things are ok:yesyes:
With regards to the young dishy doctor.....he was looking for you all his life...you need to take the bull by the horns!! (actually....that sounds a bit crude in this context eh:blush: )
happyone
xx
:hugs: :hugs: :hugs: :hugs: :hugs: :hugs: as always!
Southern_Belle
19-08-07, 14:18
Hi Andrea,
So glad all came out good news. I have been on vacation so just caught up with this. So very happy for you. :bighug1:
Love,
Laura
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