People not replying to messages

[Kate21]

At least 3 of my friends haven't replied to my messages. I'm so paranoid everyone hates me. I haven't done anything wrong. It's worse when you know they've read them and have posted on social media loads. Like seriously am I worth less time than a meme?!
It's not even like my messages are in any way complicated or needy or anything.
Another friend seems off with me because I didn't go to her 2nd wedding do (I went to the first one) because my abusive ex was there. She said she didn't mind and understood but hasn't got in touch.
How do you cope with this, I already feel like I don't matter and try not to isolate myself too much but now I feel like not bothering with anyone ever again and going to live in a hut on an island where I can't upset anyone ever again

[Pea Tear Griffin]

Hi Kate21,

Its more common than you think :winks: People are easily distracted or can't be bothered Its not you don't worry.

[Kate21]

Thank you for the reassurance. I've heard back from one of them the lady whos wedding it was. Sod the other two.

[Azzbo]

"going to live in a hut on an island where I can't upset anyone ever again"

Got room for 1 more?

[lindenlad@gmail.com]

Dear Azzbo

How have you upset lots of people???????????

Do you find it easy??????????????

best of luck

hopey

---------- Post added at 17:36 ---------- Previous post was at 17:06 ----------

Hello Kate 21

I agree with you.

I have not been on NMP for a while.

All people on this site have problems they like to talk about, but if one gets no

replies it is very disheartening.

But don't let them get you down.

Hopefully you'll find someone who will bother.

Hopey