Phoenix76
20-10-18, 14:55
For a long time I have suffered from erectile dysfunction and low libido. I used to think it was a result of excessive masturbation and porn use, but I now suspect it's all to do with anxiety. When I'm with a woman, even one I find attractive, my body doesn't respond. I know "this woman is attractive; I find her attractive," etc, but I don't feel it in my body. It's as if my body shuts down/goes cold. When I do get erections they are very weak, and I often struggle to maintain one long enough to 'finish'. But (and sorry to be a bit graphic) I have had oral sex a couple of times in a car. On each occasion it was with a different woman, and yet each time I remained hard right to the end. When I am in a bedroom, however, and try for penetration, I'm lucky to get any kind of erection at all. Penetration seems to be the real issue. Can anyone relate? Has anyone overcome such problems?