sadtimes
28-10-19, 00:56
So my mum died a month ago of a very sudden brain aneurysm at the airport. I was with her when it happened, I was moving to Spain that very day and she died 4 days later after being in a coma.
To put a long story short. My dad has always been a very difficult person to be around. My mum agreed, she felt constantly on egg shells around him, even to the point where she started eating ready-meals because my dad would kick up a fuss if she was cooking when he wanted access to the kitchen. She used to step in all the time when he was being unreasonable with my brother and I. Now that I don't have her to fight my cases and let him know when he's in the wrong, he's become even more of a colossal dickhead. It's like he's now free to treat us how he wants.
He has always been an absolute headcase stress-head. Always going from 0-100 over the most minor issue.
He knows absolutely nothing about me, as I had always been very close with my mum, she knew absolutely everything about me. My dad doesn't know that I'm a clean freak, she knew all about how stressed I was in my old apartment living with 3 boys and how I cleaned up after their mess. So living at home I have always kept the house clean. Even though today I cleaned the kitchen, hoovered up, cleaned peoples dishes and did the laundry, he went batshit about one plate I accidentally forgot to put away after washing up.
I am angry at my mum...for leaving me with him, when me and her used to talk about him constantly, why did she get to leave him and I didn't. I want so much to move out but I don't have any money, because I had to cancel my teaching assistant job in Spain because of this all. I was going to be earning 1000eur per month, I was going to be able to pay off some debt and was planning on saving up some money at the end of my contract to buy a house with my bf the following year but all those plans are ruined and I am stuck living with someone I hate.
To put a long story short. My dad has always been a very difficult person to be around. My mum agreed, she felt constantly on egg shells around him, even to the point where she started eating ready-meals because my dad would kick up a fuss if she was cooking when he wanted access to the kitchen. She used to step in all the time when he was being unreasonable with my brother and I. Now that I don't have her to fight my cases and let him know when he's in the wrong, he's become even more of a colossal dickhead. It's like he's now free to treat us how he wants.
He has always been an absolute headcase stress-head. Always going from 0-100 over the most minor issue.
He knows absolutely nothing about me, as I had always been very close with my mum, she knew absolutely everything about me. My dad doesn't know that I'm a clean freak, she knew all about how stressed I was in my old apartment living with 3 boys and how I cleaned up after their mess. So living at home I have always kept the house clean. Even though today I cleaned the kitchen, hoovered up, cleaned peoples dishes and did the laundry, he went batshit about one plate I accidentally forgot to put away after washing up.
I am angry at my mum...for leaving me with him, when me and her used to talk about him constantly, why did she get to leave him and I didn't. I want so much to move out but I don't have any money, because I had to cancel my teaching assistant job in Spain because of this all. I was going to be earning 1000eur per month, I was going to be able to pay off some debt and was planning on saving up some money at the end of my contract to buy a house with my bf the following year but all those plans are ruined and I am stuck living with someone I hate.