yeppy
01-10-07, 10:17
Hi everyone just looking for some advice really!!! i've been suffering from anxiety and panic for about 2 years now and have had various symtoms. The ones that bother me most though arent the physical (although these are horrible) but the way the anxiety messes with your head!
My big anxiety of this year has been to do with my boyfriend. When i'm feeling 'normal' i love him to bits and never want to be without him. We get on brilliantly and are really happy. But every couple of months as if from no where i start getting servere anxiety and question my feelings for him. it feels so real that i'm convinced it means i dont love him. The last time it happened was in June around the time of my brothers wedding. i get servere anxiety and stress about these type of social events anyway so obviously didnt help but it just made me panic thinking that i really couldnt do this with my boyfriend.
A few weeks later i got over it all and since then we have been really happy and even talking about moving in together at the end of the year. we've been really excited planning this and looking at places etc until last week my anxiety kicked in. i started getting scared thinking about it wondering whether i loved him and if it was the right thing. it feels so real and scary that i look at him and its as if i really feel i dont love him. But how can this be when only a week ago i was so in love and excited??? Do you think this is a normal thing to get anxious about or do you think my brain is trying to tell me something??? I really dont want to lose him or fall out of love with him as i will be devestated but the fear that this is happening feels so real! Can anyone relate to this? Going on my friends hen night at the weekend didnt help as she seems so excited and relaxed about her wedding. if it was me i'd be so scared so maybe this is a sign he isnt right and my thoughts are real and not just the anxiety playing tricks on me?? Sorry for rambling on!!!
My big anxiety of this year has been to do with my boyfriend. When i'm feeling 'normal' i love him to bits and never want to be without him. We get on brilliantly and are really happy. But every couple of months as if from no where i start getting servere anxiety and question my feelings for him. it feels so real that i'm convinced it means i dont love him. The last time it happened was in June around the time of my brothers wedding. i get servere anxiety and stress about these type of social events anyway so obviously didnt help but it just made me panic thinking that i really couldnt do this with my boyfriend.
A few weeks later i got over it all and since then we have been really happy and even talking about moving in together at the end of the year. we've been really excited planning this and looking at places etc until last week my anxiety kicked in. i started getting scared thinking about it wondering whether i loved him and if it was the right thing. it feels so real and scary that i look at him and its as if i really feel i dont love him. But how can this be when only a week ago i was so in love and excited??? Do you think this is a normal thing to get anxious about or do you think my brain is trying to tell me something??? I really dont want to lose him or fall out of love with him as i will be devestated but the fear that this is happening feels so real! Can anyone relate to this? Going on my friends hen night at the weekend didnt help as she seems so excited and relaxed about her wedding. if it was me i'd be so scared so maybe this is a sign he isnt right and my thoughts are real and not just the anxiety playing tricks on me?? Sorry for rambling on!!!