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01-10-07, 12:20
Hi All,

Please can I have a Hug as I just found out a friend of mine has passed away.

She is a very special and amazing lady.

She mentored me on No Panic a few years ago and we kept in contact eversince I also went out to visit her in Ireland. I was getting worried as although i had been e-mailing and texting I hadn't heard from her for a while. I had an e-mail from her husband today letting me know that she had died in July.

I just feel so upset http://smileys.smileycentral.com/cat/36/36_1_44.gif (http://www.smileycentral.com/?partner=ZSzeb001_ZCxdm594YYGB)and in total shock as I didn't even realize she was so ill. I feel so guilty.:weep:

Thanks Guys,

Love & Hugs,

Take Care,

Pip's X X X X

01-10-07, 12:28
So sorry to hear about your loss, my heart goes out to you!

TC xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx:hugs: :hugs: :hugs:

01-10-07, 12:32
:hugs: Pips

Im sorry to hear your sad news hun......:hugs:

thinking of you



funky chick
01-10-07, 12:38
:hugs: sending you hugs pips and so sorry hear your sad news please take care love Gail xxxx(((hugs))):hugs: :hugs: :hugs: :hugs: :hugs:

01-10-07, 12:40
:hugs: :hugs: Pips:hugs: :hugs:

I am so sorry to hear this. I wish my words could make it all go away. I am here for you in anyway that I can help. Just give me a shout, a real loud shout as I am in USA.

I will hold you in my thoughts and prayers.

Take Care & Love,
Tina:hugs: :hugs: :hugs: :hugs: :hugs: :hugs: :hugs:

01-10-07, 12:49
Pippa :hugs: you can have loads of hugs from me hun what sad news for you to receive :hugs: xxx

01-10-07, 12:51
Oh Pips .....

I'm so sorry love.....how really awfull....

sending my biggest, huge-ist janner hugs to you....


here for you anytime mate ok?



01-10-07, 13:21
Thank You so very much Bear Crazy, Andrea, Funky Chick,Tina, Mandy, GG and Nigel for all your kind words and Hugs they are so very much appreciated.:hugs:

Thanks Nigel for your kind wise words to. They make alot of sense Thanks.

Love To All,:flowers:

BIG HUGS,:hugs:
Pip's X X X X

01-10-07, 14:55

so sorry to hear of your sad news
Trac xx

01-10-07, 15:19
So so sory to hear of your loss.
I am thinking of you and send you a great big :bighug1: :hugs:

01-10-07, 16:11
sorry about your friend and how you feel, you mustnt feel guilty though -what have you got to be guilty for? you havent done anything wrong! this is what my therapist told me when i was feeling guilt about something. if we havent done something intentional then there is no reason to feel guilty. :hugs: :flowers:

01-10-07, 16:25
Thanks so much Trac Nanny and Emma. Your kind words are most appreciated. I know I shouldn't feel guilty.

Take Care,

Love Pip's X X X X

01-10-07, 17:17
I'm so sorry to hear your sad news and you're very much in my thoughts my good buddy.

:hugs: :hugs: :hugs: :hugs: :hugs: :hugs: :hugs: :hugs: :hugs: :hugs:


Feeling guilty is a natural emotion in the grieving process but you having nothing to feel guilty about. With time this emotion will pass and the sadness will be replaced with the happy memories which will stay in your heart forever. Perhaps you could do something to remember who by such as planting something once the shock has passed.

Take care,

Mike x

01-10-07, 17:35
Pips, so sorry to hear about your friend.
luv Coni XX :hugs:

01-10-07, 21:39
I'm sorry for your loss Pips.

Hugs :hugs:

Karen xx

01-10-07, 22:01

Thinking of you at this sad time mate :hugs: :hugs:


01-10-07, 23:13
Hi Pips, thinking of you and sending hugs, please dont carry any guilt with you, you are in my thoughts and prayers,xx

02-10-07, 00:04
Hi Pips,

I too am sorry for the loss of your friend. I do not think you should feel guilty either as you had no idea. A :hugs: for you during this time and know you are in my prayers.



02-10-07, 11:37
Thanks so very much Mike, Coni, Karen Nic, Alexis, and Laura for all your kind words they are so much appreciated and really help.

Thanks Again All,

Love & Hugs,:hugs:

Take Care,

Love Pip's :flowers: X X X X